Love life

[Dyrwach]

Dear god I’m sorry for the way I have treated Owen in the past I’m sorry that I kissed that guy cause I was hurt I’m sorry that I always got into drama whenever me and Owen went out and I’m sorry I always made the night about me I pray lord that after we went away in turkey Owen still loves me and wants me to be his girlfriend but god I’m hurt because he keeps dragging me in nd then pulling away again lord I’m scared I’m gonna loose him again lord as I keep getting hurt and crashed lord please just allow Owen to see I’m a good girlfriend and I care and love him a lot lord please allow him to care about me soften his heart to me and forgive me please stop letting his eyes wonder I pray his friends and family forgive me and are more encouraging of the relationship I pray he asks me to be his girlfriend again and not go back on it to heavenly farther I pray things get better between us in Jesus name I pray amen

 

[Articles]

We appreciate your heartfelt repentance and desire to seek God's will in your relationship with Owen. It's crucial to remember that God's forgiveness is available to us when we repent, as it says in 1 John 1:9 WEB: "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

However, we want to address a few things in your prayer. First, we notice that you mention being hurt and your actions because of being hurt. Remember that God's love for us does not depend on our circumstances or emotions. It is constant and unchanging, as seen in Jeremiah 31:3 WEB: "Yahweh appeared of old to me, saying, 'Yes, I have loved you with an everlasting love. Therefore I have drawn you with loving kindness.'" This includes actions before thinking about the consequences or God first as well as kissing another man.

God presents a lover for us, but this lover should also be a spouse. For we know biblically that even the thought of kissing a man that is not your spouse through guided courtship is fornication. This is sinful and should be repented for. See Ephesians 5:3 WEB: "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints;"

Secondly, it's important to pray and seek God's will for your relationship with Owen and any attempts at courtship. Instead of focusing on what you want or what you think might make you happy, trust in God's plan for your life in marriage to Owen. Remember that the primary purpose of marriage to Owen, or anyone, is to glorify God. Genesis 2:24 WEB: "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh"

Lastly, we notice that you mention Owen looking/wondering at other women. This has not been addressed fully. This is lust and is a sin. See Matthew 5:28 WEB: "but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." This is not acceptable even if he was not a Christian, but because he is or is considering courtship then he should not be as a stumbling block for you or others. This should be addressed and/or repented for as well. God calls us and our spouses to purity. This includes his thought process. This is a spiritual warfare. See Ephesians 6:12 WEB: "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."

We pray for you and Owen during this trying time and during this discernment process with God's intervention. Replace "Lord", "heavenly Father", or other names for God with His name, Jesus. For it is by His bloodshed that we can approach our heavenly Father. See Hebrew 9:22 WEB: "Yes, almost all things are cleansed with blood, according to the law, and apart from blood shedding there is no remission." See John 16:23 WEB: "In that day you will no longer ask me anything. Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you." So, we pray with these corrections,

In Jesus' name,
We pray that you and Owen seek God's will for your courtship and future marriage. We, as a prayer group, pray that Owen sees your repentance and God's work in your life. We pray and also trust that Owen as your spouse will treat you better and changes how he thinks to be more Christian rather than being distracted. We pray also for his friends and family, those who may not be entirely supportive may have hearts soften to the will of God in their life as well as the life of you both as a married couple.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, we're here for you. We understand that relationships can be complex and painful. We're sorry to hear about the hurt you've experienced, but we're glad you're turning to God in this time.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face. Trust in His love for you, which is constant and unchanging, even when circumstances or emotions fluctuate. Remember, God's love is not based on our actions or feelings, but on His unending grace.

We pray that you and Owen can have an honest conversation about the things that have hurt you both. It's important to address the actions that have caused pain, like the kiss that went too far. As believers, we're called to purity, and that includes our thoughts and actions.

We also want to encourage you to pray for Owen. Ask God to help him overcome lustful thoughts and to lead him to repentance if necessary. Pray that he would be a godly husband, treating you with kindness and respect. We believe that God can change hearts and minds, and we trust in His power to do so.

Let's pray together, in Jesus' name:

"Dear Jesus, please heal the hurts in our friend's relationship with Owen. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, with love and respect. Give Owen the strength to overcome any sinful thoughts or actions, and help him to be the godly husband our friend deserves. Softened hearts, we pray, for all involved. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We are truly grateful that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray with you. It is our privilege to stand in agreement with you in prayer, especially during this sensitive time in your relationship with Owen.

If you have seen progress in your relationship and Owen has shown more care and commitment, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be an encouragement to many who are facing similar situations.

However, if you feel that your prayer has not been answered yet, please do not hesitate to share your request again. We are here to continue praying with you and believing for God's best in your life. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He is always working for your good.

We pray that God will give you peace and strength as you continue to seek Him. May He guide your relationship with Owen and bless you abundantly as you put your trust in Jesus Christ.