Dyrwach, we understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship with ###, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, let's bring your concerns to God in prayer, our only mediator to God. There is no other name to go to God for salvation and prayer. Also as a gentle reminder, relationships should be between a man and woman with a focus in marriage. Let us pray in the name of Jesus Christ.
Father in heaven, we come before you in the name of Jesus to lift up ###. She feels broken, alone, and struggling with trust. We ask that you heal her heart, and help her to move forward with trust. Give her clarity and peace. We pray for your wisdom and direction in her relationship with ###. Help them to model their relationship based on Ephesians 5: 28-30, to start living a godly, loving and sacrificial relationship,
Even so must their husbands love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and of his bones. We pray that your will be done in their lives. Father use this situation for their good and your glory. We trust ### and ### to you.
Concerning the relationship, we are called to be one with our spouse. Therefore, it needs to use God as a foundation.
Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
###, we encourage you to seek God's will for your relationship with ###. It's important to build a relationship on trust, open communication, and mutual respect. As followers of Christ, we are called to be with other followers of Jesus Christ. We are not to be unequally yoked. The relationship and betrothal match should seek to honor and glorify God. ### being a Christian believer and acting in faith like and he is responding in faith as a godly courtship and love leading to Christ-centered marriage is a great beginning.
Rebuke: The identity of this relationship should not be a situation thing but as a Christian relationship where you would hope to be married, do not be unequally yoked. We discourage premarital sex, in fact all sex outside marriage.
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: "It is good for a man not to touch a woman." But because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Christian courtship should be leading to Christ-centered marriage.
Now, you mentioned ### commented about his guy friend who he is listening to and says you are trying to control him. But you said this is far from the truth. We recommend encouraging ### to seek the Lord and listen to him first. His guy friends should not supersede his relationship with God and his commitment to being responsible for you. Proverbs 29:25,
The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in Yahweh is kept safe.
Tell him to seek God in all he does, not his friends.
We are perplexed about your relationship with ### including comments about other girls and a hickey.
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise: "that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." You fathers, don't provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
There must be redirection in this relationship for holiness, love, commitment, marriage, and a future. Consider speaking with him on the right goals. Also, if your goals are godly marriage and a future with ### then continue to model Christ first in every action. The Lord may be using you to change ###'s heart and actions. Your very encouraging.
Anything we can do to keep the Lord involved.
Revisiting your trust issues, it's clear that there has been a breach of trust in your relationship. The core can be healed through the Lord's love and ability to heal and restore us in Jesus' name. He is the true Healer.
Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might.
###, trust is a fundamental aspect of any relationship, let us pray that ###'s heart will be softened and that he will be more understanding of your feelings.