Dyrwach, thank you for reaching out with your prayer request. We appreciate your openness and humility, and we want to address your concerns with biblical principles and heartfelt prayer.
Firstly, we want to acknowledge your distress and feelings of being unloved and used. It's important to remember that God loves you unconditionally and has a plan for your life. However, we must also address some aspects of your request that may not align with biblical principles.
It's clear that you desire a healthy relationship with Owen, but it's crucial to ensure that this relationship aligns with God's will and biblical teachings. The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB), meaning that as Christians, we should seek relationships that will draw us closer to God, not away from Him.
You mentioned Owen's struggle with drugs. It's important to pray for his deliverance and salvation, but it's also wise to be cautious in pursuing a relationship with someone who is not yet free from such bondage. The Bible tells us to "Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour." (1 Peter 5:8 WEB)
Moreover, it is written that each person should be content to remain as they are called by God. In this case specifically from what you have shared both of you may end up married if this ends up honoring the Lord rather than being a relationship. A relationship with God should mean that neither of you should be fornicating and making sure you are both committed Christians.
Your feelings of powerlessness and hopelessness are valid, but remember that God is our strength and hope. As you have done pray and continue to lift up your concerns to God, but also be forunting Owen to pick a relationship should trust God's timing and will. It's encouraging that you ended your prayer "in Jesus' name," as it is through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB).
Jesus said, "Don't let your heart be troubled; believe in God, believe also in me." (John 14:1 WEB), and "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28 WEB)
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up Dyrwach to you, asking for your comfort and guidance in her life. Lord, she feels unloved, used, and hopeless, but we know that you see her, love her, and have a purpose for her. Help her to find her identity and worth in you alone.
We pray for Owen, Lord. If it is your will, set him free from his struggle with drugs, and draw him closer to you. Help him to see the value of a godly life and a godly relationship.
Lord, if it is your will for Dyrwach and Owen to be together in a way that honors you, then let your will be done. Help them to pursue a relationship that is pure and pleasing to you, with marriage as the goal. But if it is not your will, give Dyrwach the strength to accept this and move forward.
Help Dyrwach to trust in you, to be patient, and to find peace in your presence. Give her the strength to endure and the wisdom to make decisions that honor you.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.