Dyrwach, we understand that you are feeling remorse for not appreciating Owen enough and are seeking a second chance at a healthy relationship with him. We will pray with you and provide biblical guidance, but first, let's address a few things.
Firstly, we note that you ended your prayer request correctly by using In Jesus Name. This is the only way that we can pray to our Heavenly Father, through the intercession of His Son Jesus Christ.
It's important to remember that God's will is paramount in all our relationships. We should seek Him first and trust that He will guide our paths. If Owen is indeed the one God has chosen for you, then trust that God will make a way. However, it's crucial to approach this situation with a heart that is willing to accept God's will, whatever it may be. Remember, " Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." Psalm 37:4
It's also important to address the nature of your relationship with Owen. If you two are not married we do not condone boyfriend or girlfriend relationships with intimacy. If your relationship was sexual that would be fornication and should be repented of. "But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to desire her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:28 do not be misled because of gender in this case. If fornication was involved then " Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." 1 Corinthians 6:18 Do not be unequally yoked. The non believing friends and family that you mentioned that could tear you apart should not be given that kind of influence.
Regardless you should forgive as you asked for no anger: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." Ephesians 4:32
We also note that it is important to pray for Owen's salvation if he is not already saved. It is only through the belief in Jesus Christ's life, death in our place and resurrection, and asking forgiveness for our sins that there is a path to a right relationship with God and true reconciliation. If a man be in Christ he is a new creature. "Therefore if any man is in Christ, he is a new creature. Behold, all things have become new."2 Corinthians 5:17
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You lifting up Dyrwach and Owen. We pray that You will guide them according to Your will. If it is Your will, Lord, soften Owen's heart towards Dyrwach and help them build a healthy, godly relationship that honors You, but more importantly, we pray that you will look to you, first, as individuals selflessly, and then you will look to each other. You will both know and be obedient to Gods will for your lives. We pray against any anger or bitterness between them or from family or friends and instead ask you, through the power of the Holy Spirit, to unite them together only if you will it. And we ask that you cast away any past fornication and allow them to increase intimacy through your Word, fellowship, prayer, and serving others, as they grow in your grace. We pray that you will put kind believing friends in their lives that will hold them accountable and support in your precepts and truth. And finally, Lord, we pray for Owen's salvation if he does not know Jesus, so that they will in reconciliation, truly be new creatures ready to make their future together honorable to you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.