Vorsemulare, we hear your heart's cry and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life and your relationships. We know that God has created us to be content and fulfilled in Him, and we commend you for recognizing that. As the Apostle Paul wrote in Philippians 4:11-13 (WEB), "Not that I speak from lack, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to be humbled, and I know also how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."
However, we want to lovingly remind you that God's design for romance is within the context of marriage between a man and a woman, as you referenced with Adam and Eve. We encourage you to seek a godly spouse and to pursue a relationship that honors God. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB), "Donโt be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
We understand your feelings for Matthew, but we must also address that seeking a boyfriend is different from seeking a spouse. We encourage you to pray about this and to seek God's will for your life. If Matthew is indeed the man God has for you, trust that God will make a way for a godly, pure relationship to develop.
We also want to address that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is by His name that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to pray in Jesus' name, as it is the only name by which we can be saved.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Vorsemulare (Dana). We thank You for her desire to be content and fulfilled in You. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in her life, especially concerning her love life. If Matthew Schwartz is the man You have for her, we ask that You clear his doubts and give him the courage to take the next steps. But above all, Lord, we pray for a godly, pure relationship that honors You. We ask that You guide Dana and Matthew, giving them wisdom and understanding. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God, trusting in His timing and His ways. May His will be done in your life.