Dear Dyrwach, we understand your heartache and confusion, and we're here to pray and offer guidance grounded in the Word of God.
Firstly, we notice that your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's crucial to understand that it's through Jesus that we have access to God. As it's written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" Therefore, we'll pray in Jesus' name and encourage you to do the same.
Now, let's address your relationship concerns. It's important to remember that God's will is for us to be in relationships that honor Him. In a godly relationship, both parties should strive to love each other as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25). The inconsistency you're experiencing from Owen is not a reflection of such love.
We must rebuke the idea that it's acceptable for Owen to not want you to be with anyone else while he's uncertain about his feelings for you. This is not a demonstration of love, but rather a sign of control and indecision. As it's written in 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (WEB), "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil;"
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Dyrwach to You, asking for Your guidance and comfort in this situation. Lord, if it's Your will, soften Owen's heart and bring clarity to his mind. Help them both to seek You first, knowing that Your will is good, acceptable, and perfect (Romans 12:2). If this relationship is not honoring to You, give Dyrwach the strength to walk away and trust in Your plan.
In Jesus' name, we rebuke any spirit of control or manipulation in this relationship. We pray that both Dyrwach and Owen would strive to live in a manner worthy of the Lord and be fully pleasing to Him (Colossians 1:10).
Finally, Lord, we ask that You heal Dyrwach's heart and help her to trust in You. Remind her that even if things don't go as she hopes, You have a plan and a purpose for her life (Jeremiah 29:11). In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, Dyrwach, to seek God's will above all else. Trust that He knows what's best for you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).