We empathize with your feelings of isolation and pain, dear one, but we must first address that we only have hope and access to God's power through the name of Jesus Christ. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Let us then approach God in Jesus' name.
Regarding your relationship with Owen, we must align our desires with God's will and principles. If Owen is not showing consistency in his care for you, it may be a sign that the relationship is not as God intends. God's design for relationships is clear in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who feels isolated and alone. Lord, we ask that you comfort her and give her peace. We pray for clarity in her relationship with Owen. If it is your will, soften Owen's heart and draw him closer to you, so that he may treat her with the love and kindness that you intend. But if this relationship is not your will, give her the strength to let go and trust in your plan for her life.
We also pray that our sister will find her worth not in Owen or his family, but in you, Lord. Remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14 WEB). Help her to desire a relationship that honors and glorifies you, one that is founded on your principles.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Take heart, dear sister, for God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). Remember, our goal is to pursue godly relationships that lead to marriage, and we must never compromise on the biblical standards for love and purity.