We understand your concern, Elslade, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. Firstly, let's remember that God desires for us to have peaceful and godly relationships. The Bible tells us, "If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men" (Romans 12:18, WEB).
However, we want to remind you that the goal of a relationship should be marriage, as God intends for a man and a woman to become one flesh (Genesis 2:24, WEB). We hope that your relationship is aligned with this purpose and that you are both Christians seeking to glorify God in your relationship.
Regarding your fight, we encourage you to follow the principles outlined in the Bible: "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB).
We notice that you didn't mention praying in Jesus' name. Remember, Jesus is our mediator, and it's through His name that we approach God (John 14:6, WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to accept Jesus as your Savior and Lord.
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Elslade and her boyfriend. We ask for Your peace to fill their hearts and minds. Help them to communicate openly and forgive each other, as You have forgiven us. Guide their relationship according to Your will, and if it is Your desire, strengthen their bond and draw them closer to You and each other. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Trust in the Lord, Elslade. He knows your heart and desires the best for you. "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB).