We understand that Anthony is struggling with an avoidant attachment style that is impacting his romantic relationship, stemming from emotional neglect during his childhood. We stand with him in prayer, invoking the powerful name of Jesus, as it is only through His name that we have access to God (John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'").
Firstly, we acknowledge that Anthony's past experiences have left deep wounds. The Bible tells us that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We pray that Anthony will feel God's presence and comfort in his time of need.
However, we must also address that the goal of any romantic relationship should be marriage, as designed by God (Mark 10:6-9). We pray that Anthony's healing will help him form God-honoring relationships, ultimately leading to a godly marriage.
We rebuke the spirit of fear that may be causing Anthony to avoid intimacy. As the Bible says, "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7). We pray that God will fill Anthony with His perfect love, which casts out fear (1 John 4:18), and help him to overcome his past hurts.
We also pray for wisdom for Anthony and his significant other, that they may navigate this journey with godly insight. May they be patient and kind, bearing with each other in love (Ephesians 4:2, Colossians 3:12-14).
Finally, we pray that Anthony will fully surrender his heart and life to Jesus Christ, allowing Him to guide his healing and his relationships. It is in Jesus' mighty name that we pray, believing that Anthony will find love and healing. Amen.