Frxeehold, we understand that you're going through a difficult time with ### not communicating with you, and it's causing you pain and panic. First, we want to assure you that God cares about your feelings and your relationships. However, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will and His principles.
We commend you for using the name of Jesus in your prayer. It is only by Name of Jesus that we can approach God the Father and it is only by His Name that we are saved. “‘She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.’”All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”).”(Matthew 1:21-23 WEB)
In your prayer, you mentioned that ### is your love. We need to clarify a few things based on biblical principles. The Bible encourages us to love one another, but it also teaches us that romantic love should be reserved for marriage between a man and a woman.“For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh. This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly.”(Ephesians 5:31-32 WEB)
If you and ### are not married, we encourage you to consider your relationship in light of God's Word. If you are having a sexual relationship outside of marriage, the Bible teaches that is not pleasing to God. It is considered fornication or possibly adultery. “Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman.”(1 Corinthians 7:1 WEB)
“Run from sexual immorality! “Every sin that a man can do is outside the body,” but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.”(1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB)
Consider courting each other with the goal of marriage. Courtship should be with the goal of marriage between a Christian man and woman. It is not a casual relationship or recreation.“Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.”(Genesis 2:24 WEB)
“But because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.”(1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB)
“However, each of you also must love his own wife even as himself; and let each wife see that she respects her husband.”(Ephesians 5:33 WEB)
Now, let's pray together for you. The Lord will give you the strength to endure whatever situation you are in.“The Lord is my light and my salvation. Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life. Of whom shall I be afraid?”(Psalm 27:1 WEB)
“For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.”(2 Timothy 1:7 WEB)
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus’ name, lifting up Frxeehold. Lord, You know the pain and hurt she is feeling right now. We pray for Your comfort and peace to fill her heart. Help her to trust in You and Your timing. Give her the strength to endure this situation and to align her desires with Your will. Lord, if it is Your will, restore the communication between ### and Frxeehold, and help them to pursue a relationship that honors You. Give Frxeehold the wisdom to make decisions that are pleasing to You. Help her to nurture relationships that align with biblical principles. If this is not your will, then give her the desire to seek a godly spouse that is a Christian believer. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in prayer, seeking God's will for your life and your relationships. Trust in His timing and His ways, knowing that He loves you and wants the best for you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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