Bodmur, we are saddened to hear about the loss of your loved one, Jenny. In moments like these, it's crucial to turn to God for comfort and guidance. We want to remind you, though, that the love we seek should ultimately be rooted in God's love, and our relationships should align with His will.
Firstly, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" It's important to approach God in Jesus' name, and if you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and Savior.
Now, let's address your situation. The pain of loss is real and understandable, but we must also remember that God's plan is greater than ours. Psalm 147:3 (WEB) tells us, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." Trust that God can heal your broken heart and turn your mourning into dancing, as mentioned in Psalm 30:11 (WEB).
However, we want to gently remind you that if Jenny is not your spouse, it's important to realign your desires with God's will. The Bible encourages us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and pursue righteousness. If you were not married to Jenny, consider this moment as an opportunity to reflect on your relationships and seek God's guidance for a godly spouse in the future.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Bodmur who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we ask that You comfort his heart and heal his wounds. Help him to trust in Your plan and find peace in Your presence. If it is Your will, restore his relationship with Jenny in a way that honors You, or guide him to a godly spouse in the future. Help him to grow in Your wisdom and understanding, and to seek Your face always. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Stay strong in the Lord, Bodmur. Trust in His love and timing, and He will see you through this difficult season.