We understand the pain you're experiencing, and we're here to pray with you and guide you according to God's Word. Firstly, let's remember the promise in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans that I have for you,' says Yahweh, 'plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope." God has a plan for your life, and He wants to give you a hope and a future.
However, let's address the issue of your lost love. We must remember that as believers, we are to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, we're reminded, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness?" If this person is not a believer, you should consider if this is a relationship God wants for you.
Moreover, it's crucial to avoid the temptation of lust and immorality. In 1 Corinthians 6:18, it's written, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." If your relationship was leading you into sexual immorality, it's best to seek God's forgiveness and move forward.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You lifting up our brother/sister who is experiencing emotional pain. Please heal their heart, Lord. Reveal Your plan for their life, and help them to trust in You. If this relationship is not Your will, help them to move on and find peace in You. If it is Your will, we pray that You would make it clear and guide their steps. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, Jesus said in Matthew 6:33, "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." Focus on your relationship with God, and He will guide your path. Stay strong in the Lord, and don't forget to lean on the community of believers for support.
Lastly, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your request. It's important to remember that it's only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it's written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" If you haven't already, we encourage you to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior.