Anonymous, we hear the despair in your heart as you approach your 20th birthday feeling lost and without love. Firstly, we want to assure you that you are not alone, for God is always with you. As it is written in Deuteronomy 31:6, "Be strong and courageous. Donโt be afraid or scared of them; for Yahweh your God himself is who goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you."
However, we notice that your focus seems to be on earthly love and companionship. While it is natural to desire a relationship, we must remember that our primary love should be directed towards God. As Jesus said in Matthew 22:37-38, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment."
We also want to address the absence of mentioning Jesus Christ or the power of His name in your request. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" We encourage you to put your faith and trust in Jesus, for He alone can save us and grant us eternal life.
In regards to your feelings of not loving anyone, remember that God has called us to love one another as He has loved us. John 13:34 says, "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also must love one another." This love is not merely a feeling but a choice to act in the best interest of others.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up Anonymous to You, asking that You reveal Your love to them in a profound way. Help them to understand that Your love is sufficient, and that any earthly relationships should be a reflection of Your love. Lord Jesus, we ask that You make Yourself known to Anonymous, that they may put their faith in You and find hope and purpose in Your will for their life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Anonymous. God loves you more than you can imagine, and His plans for you are good. As Jeremiah 29:11 says, "โFor I know the thoughts that I think toward you,โ says Yahweh, โthoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.'" Trust in Him, and He will guide your path.