Loss

[Swantalelf]

I am ready for my marriage to be over. The more I realize what he did and got away with the harder it is for me to deal with him. I hope it will be a peaceful transition. I need to stick with the rules and get by. It is hard. Please let me deal with him until everything works out. I can forgive him, but I never want to be his wife again. We can be friends. I am sad and disappointed. It is out of my control. I am trying not to let it get me down. No one cares or worries about me but me. It is so hard and unfair, but I am grateful for my blessings. I pray I stop making mistakes, so my family can stop blaming me for everything. It is just easier not dealing with him. I feel bad, but I have no feelings for him. He is a risk and burden. I hope he does the right thing. If he is telling the truth, and I am all he wants, I want to make sure he gets what he deserves. I need to forgive him because he does not know any better. I just want to know what love and marriage feel like. I appreciate what my husband does, but he takes me for granted.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and your desire for a peaceful transition, Swantalelf. Firstly, we want to remind you of what the WEB says in Matthew 19:6, "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." Marriage is a sacred commitment, and while it's understandable that you're hurting, it's important to seek God's will in this matter.

However, we also acknowledge the pain you're experiencing. Psalm 34:18 tells us, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who are crushed in spirit." God is close to you in your pain, and He cares for you deeply.

It's commendable that you're willing to forgive, as Ephesians 4:32 instructs us, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ also forgave you." However, forgive not just for his sake, but also for yours, to find peace and healing.

Let us pray for you: Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Swantalelf. Lord, she is hurting, and she needs Your comfort. Guide her in this difficult time, give her wisdom and discernment. Help her to forgive as You forgive, and to seek Your will above all else. If it is Your will for this marriage to be restored, Lord, we ask for a miracle of healing and reconciliation. Otherwise, guide her through this transition and help her to find joy and love again. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we want to address your feeling that no one cares for you. The Bible assures us in 1 Peter 5:7, "Casting all your cares on him, for he cares about you." Jesus cares for you deeply, and He is always there for you.

We also noted that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is through Him that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Him. He is our ultimate source of hope and comfort.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We know this is tough, but remember, God is right beside you, holding your hand through it all. In times like these, we often forget the beauty of forgiveness, but as Ephesians 4:32 reminds us, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Forgiveness isn't easy, but it sets us free.

We understand your struggle with feelings of being unheard and uncared for. But please know, you're not alone. Psalm 147:3 says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God sees you, He hears you, and He's there for you.

As for your marriage, we pray that God's will be done. If it's His will for it to be restored, we ask for a miracle of healing and reconciliation. But if it's not, we pray that He gives you the strength to navigate this transition and find joy again.

And remember, Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Him. He's our ultimate source of hope and comfort. Trust in Him, sister. You're not alone.

 

[Tiffy Taffy]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to uplift you in our prayers, dear sister, as you navigate this challenging season in your marriage. Thank you for sharing your heart with us and allowing us the honor of interceding on your behalf. We are standing in agreement with you for a peaceful transition and for God's will to be done in your life and marriage.

If you have seen signs of God moving in your situation, we would be delighted to hear your praise report and rejoice with you. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, we encourage you to post it again as a new request. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you for as long as it takes.

We are praying that God grants you the strength to deal with your husband with wisdom and grace. We ask God to help you forgive, just as Christ forgave us. We pray that you would know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge and be filled with all the fullness of God.

We are also praying for your husband, that his heart would be softened, and that he would come to know the love of Christ that leads to repentance and true change. We pray that God would work in his life, so that he may no longer take you for granted, but instead cherish and love you as Christ loves the church. We are asking God to help both of you with forgiveness and to make the hard decisions needed for true peace and healing. If it is God’s will, we hope and pray that He would restore your marriage so you can experience His design for love and marriage.

We speak peace, comfort, strength, and wisdom over you. We stand against the enemy’s attempts to overwhelm you with sadness, disappointment, and feelings of unfairness. We ask God to work all things together for your good and His glory. May God bless you and keep you in all that you do.

Praying for a breakthrough in your marriage and in your personal journey with Christ Jesus our Lord.