Losing my Home soon !!

[Anonymous]

Last year, I caught my "###" cheating. This is the SECOND time & we've been married for 15 years. I kicked her out.. she came home a few days later & asked if she could stay here until she saved for her own place.. she's been here over a Year & makes almost $2k a MONTH & hasn't given me ANY $. I own a Plumbing Company & I haven't been able to work myself in almost 6 Months.. First off, I broke my Foot TWICE & Can barely Walk & on top of THAT my Work vans Catalytic was stolen (Shocker) and a NEW one? $O Expensive !! So I subbed the jobs out to my uncle & I still made about $2-$4k a Month BUT he passed away. And now all my savings are depleted. Ok so I decide, I will sell my Home & I would have $ & be able to leave here & and her too .. But NOW I'm behind 1 MONTH in Mortgage ... She won't help me because "SHE'S BROKE" .. Hardly but whatever !! And she thinks she deserves 1/2 of MY HOME !!! Which won't be MY home much Longer if I don't catch up. I've applied for a loan 3 times & I get turned sown because SHE took out a Loan for $3k I didn't even KNOW about when we had a Joint account. So when I caught her, she stopped paying !!! It hit me like a Bomb... Destroyed my Credit !! And through all this, would you believe I STILL Care for her?! I don't want to be married to her anymore but I don't want to see her want for things.... Lord God, I feel like I'm holding a Grudge against her & by reading this it's Obvious. I do NOT want to be Angry or Regretful.. I find myself thinking about Revenge, to make Her Hurt like I am... But Revenge is YOURS, not mine !! Please stop me from thinking Negatively against the one woman who Loved YOU enough to Impress me So much I married her. But WHO did I really Marry Lord ??? Help me to do the right things & Make the Decisions You want me to make Lord....Amen

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the trials you are facing, and we want you to know that we are here to pray and counsel with you in the name of Jesus Christ. We will address the issues you presented one by one and present our prayer for you. The Bible tells us in Galatians 6:2 WEB, Bear one anothers burdens, and thus fulfill the law of Christ. We will start with this verse and cover some of the issues in your marriage.

First, let's address the issue of adultery. This is a grave sin against God and your spouse, but it is not unforgivable. Jesus Himself said in John 8:7 WEB, He who is without sin among you, let him throw the first stone at her. We do not condone her actions, but we also encourage you to forgive, just as Jesus forgave us. Ephesians 4:32 WEB: Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Furthermore, adultery breaks the marriage covenant. More importantly, it is a sin against God.

Next, let's discuss the financial struggles you are experiencing. It is clear that your wife has not been honest or responsible with finances. This is a serious issue, but it is also an opportunity for you to trust God with your finances. The Bible says in Matthew 6:24-25, 33-34 WEB No man can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other; or else he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Mammon. Therefore, I tell you, do not be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore, do not be anxious for tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Each day's own evil is sufficient.

Regarding your housing situation, we encourage you to trust God with your home and finances. He knows your needs and will provide for you according to His riches in glory. We know that God has a plan for your housing situation.

In all this, you have expressed feelings of anger, resentment, and even revenge. These feelings are natural, but they are not from God. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:26-27 WEB, Be angry, and do not sin. Do not let the sun go down on your wrath, and do not give place to the devil. It is important to acknowledge your feelings, but it is also important to forgive and let go of bitterness.

You mentioned that you still care for your wife, but you do not want to be married to her anymore. We encourage you to seek God's will for your marriage. The sanctity of marriage is a fundamental biblical principle, and God hates divorce as stated in Malachi 2:16 WEB For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel.

We also noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer or specifically pray in Jesus' Name. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Furthermore, there is no other name by which we can be saved. And Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.

Now, let us pray for you.

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is facing immense trials in his marriage, finances, and health. Lord, we ask that You forgive your wife for her sins of adultery and financial irresponsibility. We know that this is a trying time for your brother and You are a God of mercy and grace. Help him to forgive her from his heart and not hold on to bitterness or resentment. We pray that You will heal his foot and provide for his financial needs according to Your riches in glory. We ask that You will give him wisdom and discernment as he navigates this difficult situation. We also pray that You will guide him and show him the importance of praying in Jesus' Name. Please show him the way to You and give him the strength to endure these trials. We pray these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

 

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Oh dear friend, we're so sorry to hear about your situation. It's like a heavy storm you're weathering, and we're here with you, holding you up in prayer.

First, let's remember that God is always with you, even in the darkest times. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He sees your pain and He cares.

We want to encourage you to keep forgiving, just as you've been doing. It's not easy, we know, but holding onto bitterness only hurts you more. Remember, "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." (Colossians 3:13)

As for your home, remember that God promises in Matthew 6:33, "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." Trust that He knows your needs and will provide for you.

And finally, we want to remind you that God loves you and your wife deeply. He hates divorce, but He also hates to see His children suffer. He's there, ready to help you both through this.

Let's pray together, "Dear Lord, we lift up our brother to You. Comfort him in his pain, guide him in his decisions, and help him to forgive as You have forgiven him. Give him peace and strength to endure. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

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Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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