Losing Hope in Future Marriage

[meena_]

Please pray for my future marriage with Brad. If you have been following along my prayer requests, he doesn't wish to do the party that honors my family because he thinks it's wrong. The last couple of days, by the grace of God, we were able to get back on communicating terms since he blocked me for 3-4 days prior. But, it's been a lot of disputes since he is stubborn about getting what he wants and expects me to accommodate him, even though my family has been bending over backward for his requests by telling me to run away from home. Today, a few of my friends contacted me saying that I might need to let him go, and it got me depressed since I make love/care for him and wasn't expecting the relationship to be thrown away over a small family party. I presented my case to him one final time; he said he'd think about it and disappeared for now to exercise. Just pray for Brad and my healing for anything hurtful we said/did and not meeting our expectations we had for one another. Please pray in Jesus's name that God reveals to him that the hill he's trying to die on will cost him a lot based on his wrong interpretation of the party. Pray that God reminds Brad of the vows he wrote for me for the wedding day and our love. Pray in Jesus's name that we reflect God's love in our relationship. Pray for me to maintain hope and not give up on my faith in life. I have been through a lot of horrible events this year; I don't want to lose Brad as well and hit absolute rock bottom. I cry every day over Brad, my finances, and the injustice that has been done against me. I pray for God's breakthrough and wait for it patiently, but I'm met with depression and anxiety. Please pray that God helps Brad and me reach the wedding day and change Brad into a godly man and bless the marriage. In Jesus's name, amen. Thank you.

 

[Articles]

We understand your distress, Splanchnomos, and we're here to pray with you and offer guidance grounded in the Word of God.

Firstly, we commend you for seeking God's will in your relationship with Brad. It's crucial to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB).

However, we must address some concerns. The disputes you're experiencing, especially Brad's refusal to honor your family and his expectation for you to accommodate him, even to the point of suggesting you run away from home, are not in line with biblical principles. The Bible teaches us to honor our parents (Exodus 20:12 WEB) and to love and respect each other (1 Peter 2:17 WEB).

Moreover, the fact that you mentioned making love to Brad indicates a sexual relationship outside of marriage, which is fornication in God's sight (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). We urge you to repent and flee from this sin. God's design for sexual intimacy is within the bounds of marriage.

Let's pray together:

*Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Splanchnomos and Brad. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness if they have sinned against You, and we pray for Your healing and restoration in their lives. Father, we ask that You reveal to Brad the importance of honoring Splanchnomos' family and the true meaning of love and commitment. Change his heart, Lord, and make him a godly man, reflecting Your love and righteousness.*

*Lord, we also pray for Splanchnomos. Strengthen her faith and help her to maintain hope. Heal her from the depression and anxiety she's been experiencing, and comfort her in her sorrows. Father, guide her steps and help her to trust in You completely.*

*Lord, if it is Your will, bring Brad and Splanchnomos to the wedding day, but only if it aligns with Your purpose and brings glory to Your name. Help them to reflect Your love in their relationship, encouraging and building each other up in You.*

*In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will. Trust in Him, for He has good plans for you (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Remember, God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB). Keep your eyes on Jesus, and He will see you through this storm.

Lastly, we urge you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a mature Christian mentor, to help you navigate this situation. They can provide you with personal guidance and support as you strive to live according to God's Word.

 

[Lizzymay]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[meena_]

We understand your distress, Splanchnomos, and we're here to pray with you and offer guidance grounded in the Word of God.

Firstly, we commend you for seeking God's will in your relationship with Brad. It's crucial to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB).

However, we must address some concerns. The disputes you're experiencing, especially Brad's refusal to honor your family and his expectation for you to accommodate him, even to the point of suggesting you run away from home, are not in line with biblical principles. The Bible teaches us to honor our parents (Exodus 20:12 WEB) and to love and respect each other (1 Peter 2:17 WEB).

Moreover, the fact that you mentioned making love to Brad indicates a sexual relationship outside of marriage, which is fornication in God's sight (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). We urge you to repent and flee from this sin. God's design for sexual intimacy is within the bounds of marriage.

Let's pray together:

*Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Splanchnomos and Brad. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness if they have sinned against You, and we pray for Your healing and restoration in their lives. Father, we ask that You reveal to Brad the importance of honoring Splanchnomos' family and the true meaning of love and commitment. Change his heart, Lord, and make him a godly man, reflecting Your love and righteousness.*

*Lord, we also pray for Splanchnomos. Strengthen her faith and help her to maintain hope. Heal her from the depression and anxiety she's been experiencing, and comfort her in her sorrows. Father, guide her steps and help her to trust in You completely.*

*Lord, if it is Your will, bring Brad and Splanchnomos to the wedding day, but only if it aligns with Your purpose and brings glory to Your name. Help them to reflect Your love in their relationship, encouraging and building each other up in You.*

*In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will. Trust in Him, for He has good plans for you (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Remember, God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB). Keep your eyes on Jesus, and He will see you through this storm.

Lastly, we urge you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a mature Christian mentor, to help you navigate this situation. They can provide you with personal guidance and support as you strive to live according to God's Word.

In my prayer request, I didn't mean that we were making love; I just meant that God reminded him of our love for each other. Amen, thank you.

 

[hostadmin]

Oh, dear friend, we're here with you, feeling your heartache and praying alongside you. We know it's tough, but remember, God sees you, and He cares deeply about your situation.

We've been thinking about your relationship with Brad, and we want to encourage you to keep communicating openly and honestly with him. It's clear that there are some misunderstandings and hurt feelings on both sides, but that's no reason to give up. Keep the lines of communication open, and always be ready to listen and understand his perspective as well.

We also want to remind you that God is always faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Trust in Him, and believe that He is working everything out for your good, even in this difficult time (Romans 8:28).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister and Brad. Lord, we ask for Your healing and restoration in their relationship. Help them to communicate more effectively, with love and understanding. Give them wisdom to navigate their differences and to grow together in unity and love.

Father, we ask that You would soften Brad's heart, helping him to see the importance of honoring our sister's family and the true meaning of love and commitment. Help him to become the godly man You desire him to be.

Lord, we also pray for our sister. Strengthen her faith and help her to maintain hope, even in the face of adversity. Comfort her in her sorrows and guide her steps, helping her to trust in You completely.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep holding on to hope, dear friend. God is at work, and He will see you through this storm. Trust in Him, and remember that you are never alone. We're praying for you, every step of the way.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Binenvin]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[A C / A O]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.