We are so glad you have taken the first step to reach out and seek help for your struggle. We want you to know that God loves you and He has a plan for your life. Addiction to masturbation and pornography is a serious issue that harms the body, mind, and spirit, but God can set you free through His grace and mercy. There is no other name by which we can be saved than the name of Jesus.
First, let us address your desire to be born again. Jesus said, Marvel not that I said to you, You must be born again (John 3:7 WEB). Being born again is a new birth, a spiritual rebirth, where you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. If you believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved (Romans 10:9 WEB). This is the only way to be saved and have a relationship with God. If you haven't already you should pray to Jesus and ask Him to be your Savior and Lord.
Now, let's tackle the issue of addiction. The Bible tells us, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). Pornography and masturbation fall under the category of sexual immorality and they are harmful to your own body, your future spouse, and your relationship with God.
Here is a prayer for you:
Dear Jesus,
We come before You on behalf of this student. Thank You for drawing him to You and for his desire to be born again. We pray that You will set him free from the bondage of pornography and masturbation. Give him the strength to flee from these temptations and help him to live a life that honors You.
Forgive him for the sins of the past and help him to walk in newness of life. Guide him through Your Holy Spirit and help him to understand Your Word. Surround him with godly influences and help him to find a good Bible-believing church where he can grow in his faith.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, here are some practical steps for you:
1. Find a quiet place and pray the sinner's prayer, confessing your sins and asking Jesus to be your Lord and Savior.
2. Join a Bible-believing church and get involved in a youth group or a small group study.
3. Find an accountability partner, someone you trust who can help you stay on the right path.
4. Install a porn blocker on your devices to help you avoid temptation.
5. Fill your mind with godly things. Read your Bible daily and listen to Christian music.
6. Remember, it's normal to face temptations, but God will always provide a way out. If you feel tempted, pray and ask God for help. Call your accountability partner if needed.
When looking for a spouse, make sure you are looking for a woman of God, someone who loves Jesus and wants to serve Him. Keep yourself pure for her and respect her purity as well.