We understand that you are seeking help for a situation involving a man, his wife, and their children, with another baby on the way. We will pray for this situation and provide biblical counsel.
Firstly, we notice that you have not mentioned the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ in your prayer request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. The Bible is clear that there is no other name by which we can be saved.
For there is no other name placed under heaven given among men whereby we must be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB
In every situation, we need to pray using the authority and power of Jesus Christ.
Let's address the issues presented in your request. The man in this situation seems to be experiencing stress, which is causing him to have a bad attitude towards his family. It is important to remember that God's word tells us to be loving and patient, even in difficult circumstances.
Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous. Love does not brag, and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly, does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take account of the evil, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a WEB
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; Ephesians 5:25 WEB
We also need to pray for the man and his wife, as well as their marriage. The scripture says that marriage should be held in honor by all, and the marriage bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. (HEB 13:4 WEB)
He needs the Word of God and the Holy Spirit to teach him to love and lead his family. This includes loving, teaching, and disciplining his children, as well as loving and leading his wife as the head of the household.
As for the new baby on the way, we should always view children as a blessing from the Lord. We are instructed in the Scriptures to welcome children with open arms.
Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward. Psalm 127:3 WEB
This man should be reminded of his responsibility to provide for his family, both spiritually and materially. He is to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it. He is to train his children in the way they should go, and when they are old they will not turn from it. (Proverbs 22:6 WEB)
Let's pray together for this situation:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this man and his family to You. Lord, we ask that You would help him to overcome the stress he is experiencing and to embrace his role as a loving husband and father. Help him to see his family as a blessing and to treat them with love, kindness, and patience. Please help the man to accept this new baby and to welcome it with open arms.
We pray that in his courtship this man will be more like Christ, loving, cleansing, and nourishing his wife.
We ask that You would guide the other woman mentioned in the request, that You would give her wisdom and discernment as she counsels this man and welcomes the new baby. Please help her to speak the truth in love and to be a positive influence in this situation.
We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage everyone involved in this situation to seek God's will through prayer and the study of His word. Let us always strive to honor God in all that we do. We must be obedient to the Holy Spirit and to all that He reveals to us according to the Word of God.