We understand your pain and struggle, and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, it's important to acknowledge your feelings of anger and frustration, but also to remember that we are called to forgive as Christ forgave us. Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB states, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
The situation you're facing is indeed unfair, but we must remember that God is just and that He cares for you. Psalm 37:27-28 WEB reminds us, "Depart from evil, and do good. Then you will dwell in the land forever. For Yahweh loves justice, and will not forsake his saints."
It's crucial to address the issue of your husband's adultery, which is a sin against God and you. Matthew 5:32 WEB says, "but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery." We pray that he may repent and turn away from this sin.
We also want to encourage you to trust God with your finances. Matthew 6:25-34 WEB tells us not to worry about our lives, what we will eat or what we will drink; nor about our bodies, what we will put on, but seek God's Kingdom and righteousness. Philippians 4:19 WEB, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is hurting and struggling with anger and frustration. We pray that You will help her to release these feelings and to forgive her husband, just as Christ forgave us. We ask that You will convict her husband of his sin and bring him to repentance. We also pray for Your provision and help with the financial struggles she is facing. We trust in Your justice and Your love for us. Give her peace and strength as she goes through this trial, and help her to keep her eyes fixed on You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is the only way to God the Father. Just remember that God is working everything for your good because you love Him and are called according to His purpose.