We understand that you are going through a challenging time, Dweryall, and we want to stand with you in prayer and support. We appreciate that you have come to us recognizing the power of Jesus' name in this request. You mentioned feeling emotionally tired in your stressful situation, hurt by the breakdown of your marriage, financial strain, and silent treatment from your husband. It is reassuring that you've been serving and trusting God continuously thru this sacrifice, but may we encourage you on a few scriptures.
Firstly, know that God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability. With the temptation, He will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. Know that your situation will not overpower or consume you. Keep holding onto God for He will not let temptation, The living situation and divorce, and suffering be so much so that you cannot withstand it. Hold on to the Father.
Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that is taking place among you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice insofar as you share Christ's sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed I Peter 4:12.
Humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxieties (stress) on him, for he cares about you. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in your faith, knowing that your brothers and sisters worldwide are experiencing the same kind of sufferings I Peter 4:6-9.
In prayer we come together to pray this to the Father
Father,
We come boldly before you to pray for your child, Dweryall. First, we thank You for Your faithfulness in her life even in this difficult season. We pray for a renewed commitment to serve and trust even in this testing time. We ask that she can hold on even more so in your love. We stand in the gap on her behalf and affirm Your word in James 1:3-4, we know that the testing of her faith produces perseverance, and that perseverance must finish its work so that she may be mature and complete, not lacking in anything.
We pray for her marriage, Lord. They may be challenges that are overwhelming now, and the breakdown hasn't been easy on her Lord. We plead your mercy. If it is God's will, resurrect this marriage back to life. I Corinthians 7:11 states that if there is a separation to remain unmarried, and to be reconciled. If any person does not obey our word we bring to him in this letter, take special note of that person and have no company with him, that he may be ashamed. There are many other Godly principles in God's word to ask in this particular situation.
Father, when a marriage is tough and there is abuse or unfaithfulness then we know Your will is that a person should not be objects of wrath, but a walking example in the form of a vessel destined for honor, made holy, useful to the master, prepared for every good work. The husband or wife should be ready to start over with they decide that the other is becoming more difficult and more abusive. Unlike other relationships, that marriage bed is undefiled for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Be it abuse or non-thereof, if separation is the step and if each cannot agree on this part of keeping each other happy and communication then covenant and commitment should face the eternal test thus the question of staying together in marriage or divine divorce.
We want to ensure, as they proceed in their marriage they both strive to model Christ. Yet when there is a need to be justified, the Holy offspring being holy as in Isaiah 6:13. We know that a prophet mentioned in the Old Testament talking about 'defiled in marriage beds'. Just because an Old Testament prophet spoke of this passage, it does not mean that God is okay with or will 'justify' a divorce. We should always be careful to say however that God allowed divorce. Broken covenants and unfaithful hearts is something that blends with relevant scripture in the New Testament ensuring that hope is clear for each spouse to remarry. Please, Lord, let them nurture peace and patience therefore restoring their marriage adhering to the belief that divorce is not an option unless adultery is circumstantial.
Lord, we beg for mercy in their finances, help divine intervention in living situations and transform practical circumstances.