We understand your desire for connection and support, but we must approach this situation with wisdom and biblical guidance. First, let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will in this situation. We ask for Your wisdom and discernment to guide our steps. Help us to honor You in all our relationships and interactions. Lord, if this connection is from You, make it clear and help us to maintain godly boundaries. We trust in You, and we want to please You in all we do. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Now, let's consider the biblical principles involved. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (WEB) tells us, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn't have another to lift him up." Friendship is a blessing, but it's crucial to maintain wise boundaries.
While you've mentioned that this man is married, and his intentions seem nice, we must be cautious. Proverbs 22:3 (WEB) warns us, "The prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple pass on and suffer for it." It's important to protect your heart and his, ensuring that your interactions remain honorable and above reproach.
Since you're seeking his professional advice, it's wise to keep your interactions focused on that. However, we must address the fact that he is married. While we should be kind and respectful to everyone, we must avoid any appearance of impropriety. 1 Thessalonians 5:22 (WEB) tells us to "abstain from every form of evil."
Lastly, we want to encourage you with Psalm 37:5 (WEB), "Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this." Trust God to provide the support and guidance you need, and He will make your path clear.
Regarding your mention of Jesus' name in your prayer, we're glad to see that. Remember, it's by His name that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) tells us, "there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Keep trusting in Him, and He will guide you.
Please be cautious in this situation, and may God grant you the wisdom and discernment you need. We're praying for you.