We are truly sorry to hear that you're in a situation with someone who is being harmful and mean. Firstly, we need to address that the word 'narsasist' is not found in the bible and it is important to make a distinction between a medical issue and behaviors that are not Chrsist-like. It is important to understand that we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual wickedness in high places as stated in Ephesians 6 12. Therefore, as Christians we should avoid labeling and name calling to individuals. Instead focus on their behaviors and actions.
It's crucial to remember that God calls us to love even our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, as Jesus taught in Matthew 5 43-48. However, this does not mean you should remain in a situation where you are being harmed. Safety and godliness must be an important part of the guidance to those suffering from being the victim of a sinner or the suffering due to one's own sin of Chrsitians. God wants us to be in loving and supportive relationships, and He is not honored by behavior that is mean or abusive to His children. It is important to focus on telling the sinner that their behavior is not acceptable and that they are going down a path that leads to death. Encourage them to repent and accept Jesus as their savior. Until then if there are Christians that can interceed for the wellal of the sinner and victim to the authorities it should be done, despite the shame that some sin may bring. Doubt should not be cast on the victim as to their participation in the sin because the Christain witness was clear and they would not participate willingly.
The Bible tells us in Matthew 18 1-35 how to handle this as a Believer:
If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother. But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church. But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a Gentile and a tax collector.
If this individual is causing harm and being mean, yet does not repent, it's important to set boundaries. Consider physical distancing and reaching out to spiritual mentors or church leaders for support and guidance. Remember, God does not call us to endure abuse, but to walk in love, wisdom, and safety.
We Pray: Lord Jesus Christ, we come before You in prayer, asking for Your divine intervention, protection, and strength. You are our refuge and our fortress, and we trust in You alone. Please convict and change the heart of this individual who is causing harm. Help us to respond with love, prayer, and grace, even as we set boundaries for our protection. Give us wisdom to know what steps to take, and surround us with godly counselors who can help us move forward. We ask all of this in Jesus name. Amen.
Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God the Father, and it is in His name that we find salvation this situation. John 14 6 "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." We should always pray in Jesus' name to align with His will and be led by His life.