We are truly sorry to hear about the breakdown of your marriage, Dweryall, and we are here to pray and offer biblical guidance with you.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
In times of distress, especially when involving our spouse, it's crucial to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB). However, He does permit it in certain circumstances, such as adultery (Matthew 5:32 WEB) or if an unbelieving spouse wants to leave (1 Corinthians 7:15 WEB). It's important to discern if your situation falls under these exceptions.
Regarding your husband, it's vital to remember that God does not see anyone as inherently evil. Instead, we are all sinners in need of His grace (Romans 3:23 WEB). It could be that your husband is acting out of sinful patterns, but it's essential to pray for him, rather than label him. As it is written in Luke 6:27-28 WEB: "But I tell you who hear: love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Dweryall and her marriage. Lord, we pray for peace, protection, and healing in every area of her life. We ask that You guide her steps and give her wisdom in dealing with her husband. Lord, if this marriage can be saved, we pray for restoration and reconciliation. If not, we ask that You give Dweryall the strength to accept and move forward.
Lord, we also pray for Dweryall's husband. We ask that You soften his heart and turn him away from any sinful behaviors. We pray that he would come to know You as his personal Lord and Savior if he does not already.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, Dweryall, we encourage you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian counselor, to help you navigate this difficult time. Remember that God is always with you, and He cares for you deeply. As it is written in Psalm 34:18 WEB: "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."