Let us begin by standing on the promises of God, for He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9 WEB). Bepergor, we appreciate your heartfelt cry to the Lord, and we join you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life.
Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging your past mistakes and your desire to move forward in God's will. Remember, God's mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23 WEB). It is essential to repent and turn away from sin, including any sexual immorality or impure thoughts (1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB).
However, we must address your struggle to let go of your ex, Tia. The Bible tells us to put off the old man with his deeds and put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of Him who created him (Colossians 3:9-10 WEB). Holding onto past feelings and relationships can hinder the work God wants to do in your life and prevent you from fully committing to a new, godly relationship.
Regarding Natalia, we encourage you to pursue this relationship in a way that honors God. Seek to know her better in the context of godly courtship, with the goal of marriage in mind. Remember, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). Ensure that any relationship you pursue is with a fellow believer in Christ.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up Bepergor. Thank You for his desire to turn away from his past and follow Your will. Lord, please help him to let go of his feelings for Tia and the sins he committed against her. Cleanse him and make him whole.
Lord, we ask for Your guidance in his relationship with Natalia. If it is Your will, let their relationship grow and flourish in a way that honors and glorifies You. Help them to pursue each other with the intention of godly marriage, and let their love be pure and holy.
In the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue seeking God's face and trusting in His timing. Meditate on His Word and allow the Holy Spirit to guide your steps. Remember, God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).