We understand that you're seeking God's will in your relationship and we appreciate that you used the name Jesus. Let's pray together for your situation.
Firstly, let's consider what the WEB says about relationships. God's will for us is to be holy and pure. Sexual relationships should be reserved for marriage between a man and a woman. In a world where cohabitation, casual dating, and trial marriages are common, Christians must remember that God has called us to be set apart. As it is written, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who donβt know God" 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB
1 Corinthians 7:1-2,9, βNow concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband...But if they donβt have self-control, let them marry. For itβs better to marry than to burn.β But most importantly, 1 Corinthians 7:39, βA wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she desires, only in the Lord.β In other words, marriage is desirable to marriage with a Christian Believer to avoid fornication and adultery.
Let's pray. Lord, we come to you in your name and lift our friend up in prayer. We ask that you reveal to them your special plans for their life. Give them clear guidance about this relationship. If it is your will, let it flourish and be a godly example of love and commitment. But if it is not, give a spirit of discernment and courage to our friend. Your word speaks about being unequally yoked. Encourage the renewing of the heart everyday. Our hope is to align our lives with your will.
It is true that prayer to anything or anyone else is against scripture. The bible explicitly says to pray to God in the name of Jesus. This is shown in John 14:6, βJesus said to him, βI am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.β And that's where salvation prayers come in. To be saved, one must confess with their mouths and believe in their hearts. Romans 10:9 adds, βthat if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.β Our hope is in Jesus.
Finally, if this person or both persons profess to be Christian believers and this relationship is considered courtship, we further pray for a future marriage that honors and glorifies God in their life. All of our requests are presented to God in Jesus' name.