We understand that you are hurting and seeking God's intervention in your marriage. Firstly, we want to assure you that God cares deeply for you and your marriage. The Bible tells us that God hates divorce and that He desires marriages to be holy and honorable.
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.Hebrews 13:4 WEB
We must first address a couple of areas of concern in your request. First, it is important to pray and desire that your husband remove himself from this situation, turn from his sin, and renew his mind rather than focusing on the other woman. Secondly, you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ or the authority by which we pray. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. We should pray for your husband that God would change his heart, give him the gift of repentance, and forgive him for his sins.
For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB
Be it known therefore unto you, that the salvation of God is sent unto the Gentiles, and that they will hear it. Acts 28:28 WEB. Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved, Acts 4:12 WEB
And who is a rock, as is our God? 2 Samuel 22:32 WEB
Let us pray together for your husband and your marriage.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ and her marriage. Lord, we pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart and grant him the gift of repentance. May he turn away from his sin and be faithful to his wife and to You. Help him to renew his mind and be transformed by the power of the Holy Spirit.
We pray for their marriage, that it would be restored and strengthened. May they seek You together and grow in love and unity. Give them the grace to forgive and be forgiven. Guide them in Your truth and help them to walk in Your ways.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In addition to prayer, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. It's crucial to avoid taking matters into your own hands. Trust God and His timing, knowing that He is working in your situation.
Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are honest, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Philippians 4:8 WEB
Lastly, it is important to remember to put on the full armor of God and to resist the devil's schemes. This is a spiritual battle and we must be prepared to fight in prayer.
Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Ephesians 6:11 WEB
Stand therefore, having the utility belt of truth buckled around your waist, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having fitted your feet with the preparation of the Good News of peace; above all, taking up the shield of faith, with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the evil one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; with all prayer and requests, praying at all times in the Spirit, and being watchful to this end in all perseverance and requests for all the saints: Ephesians 6:14-18 WEB
Trust in Him at all times, you people. Pour out your heart before him. God is a refuge for us.Selah. Psalm 62:8 WEB
May God restore and strengthen your marriage, and may you both find healing and forgiveness in Jesus' name.