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HELLO , BROTHERS , SISTERS
thank you for remembering me
i am not fine .......
my father met with a road accident on (MAY 20 2011) . a sports car with a speed of 160 to 170 km ran over him ,
my father passed away on the spot. i saw the accident and was in a shock .as my dad was hit very badly , flew over the car roof top , then fell on the front glass , then on the floor . he was bleeding very badly as he was been hit on his head .it was a tragic accident
my mother came after the accident she did not see , but saw my bleeding and passed away .
she too is in a shock .since then i am taking care of my mother .now 46days have passed but she is till not well.
we 3 were all siting in the car . the tire got punched .me and my dad got out of the car . and then the car ran over my dad on the service lane ( emergence lane ) were car are not to be driven . it was the fault of the two young boys they were racing and did not see my dad and hit him ..
after 4 days as when we finished the paper work i along with my mom took my dad did his cremation .
.................................................. ...brother , sisters i lost my father ..................
and with my husband ....
he came for the funeral along with my in laws
my husband came again latter asked my mom for an apologies , but was blaming me .for all whatever had happened earlier
but he now says he wants to save the marriage , that he would move to another house along with his parents but would not stay alone
brother now i can't leave my mother i have to take care of her.till she gets better .its my responsibility to look after her as i am the only child in the house .
my mother told my husband to take the responsibility of me stay with her .in an individual house were husband and wife can stay peacefully .but there is no answer from him ......
my mom is very upset with him ..that at least now after my dad passed away my husband should understand now ....to take care of me but if he doesnot .....
i just don't know what to do
.if he is not staying alone with me as i can't take the pressure to look after any one .i have lost my father and myself in a state of shock . . if now he does not understand .
my uncles aunts want me to divorce him .my mother thinks i am happy that my dad passed away
.but trust me there was nothing more to me in life than my father .
he used to love me a lot and so do i .may be that is why i was the only i witness to his accident and when my dad felt from that sport car on the road.he was unconscious . i ran to him .i took him in my hands he was bleeding from his head and mouth .and he took his last breath.
i went to the police station gave the statement just after the accident then.went to the hospital to the mortuary to see my dad .did all the arrangements for him .i did all the rites which a son has to do . did all his prayers .and now looking after my mother .
even today i can very well see the whole insides in front of my eyes . can't sleep or eat .just remembering my dad .
i was in am mess trying to sort of the misunderstanding with my husband
then now my dad passed away .........i am in a shock
and now if my husband doesnot understand
another blow to me that my relatives want me to give a divorce .
god knows what he wants from me .
please do keep in touch
thank u for remembering me .
please pray that my father soul rest in please .......i was very very close to my father , why god took him away from me in this manner , at this time and now i have no one to understand me .
hope my husband understand ....and not break the marriage ......please pray for me
lord please help me .
please
i am only looking at you ....for you have to rest my father soul to rest in peace .
make my husband understand and .. not break my marriage
make my mother understand me ....and not break my marriage .
make my husband and my mother understand each other .
i am in a real mess .
i need your help . i can't do without you .
thanking u and waiting for your urgent reply
thank you for remembering me
i am not fine .......
my father met with a road accident on (MAY 20 2011) . a sports car with a speed of 160 to 170 km ran over him ,
my father passed away on the spot. i saw the accident and was in a shock .as my dad was hit very badly , flew over the car roof top , then fell on the front glass , then on the floor . he was bleeding very badly as he was been hit on his head .it was a tragic accident
my mother came after the accident she did not see , but saw my bleeding and passed away .
she too is in a shock .since then i am taking care of my mother .now 46days have passed but she is till not well.
we 3 were all siting in the car . the tire got punched .me and my dad got out of the car . and then the car ran over my dad on the service lane ( emergence lane ) were car are not to be driven . it was the fault of the two young boys they were racing and did not see my dad and hit him ..
after 4 days as when we finished the paper work i along with my mom took my dad did his cremation .
.................................................. ...brother , sisters i lost my father ..................
and with my husband ....
he came for the funeral along with my in laws
my husband came again latter asked my mom for an apologies , but was blaming me .for all whatever had happened earlier
but he now says he wants to save the marriage , that he would move to another house along with his parents but would not stay alone
brother now i can't leave my mother i have to take care of her.till she gets better .its my responsibility to look after her as i am the only child in the house .
my mother told my husband to take the responsibility of me stay with her .in an individual house were husband and wife can stay peacefully .but there is no answer from him ......
my mom is very upset with him ..that at least now after my dad passed away my husband should understand now ....to take care of me but if he doesnot .....
i just don't know what to do
.if he is not staying alone with me as i can't take the pressure to look after any one .i have lost my father and myself in a state of shock . . if now he does not understand .
my uncles aunts want me to divorce him .my mother thinks i am happy that my dad passed away
.but trust me there was nothing more to me in life than my father .
he used to love me a lot and so do i .may be that is why i was the only i witness to his accident and when my dad felt from that sport car on the road.he was unconscious . i ran to him .i took him in my hands he was bleeding from his head and mouth .and he took his last breath.
i went to the police station gave the statement just after the accident then.went to the hospital to the mortuary to see my dad .did all the arrangements for him .i did all the rites which a son has to do . did all his prayers .and now looking after my mother .
even today i can very well see the whole insides in front of my eyes . can't sleep or eat .just remembering my dad .
i was in am mess trying to sort of the misunderstanding with my husband
then now my dad passed away .........i am in a shock
and now if my husband doesnot understand
another blow to me that my relatives want me to give a divorce .
god knows what he wants from me .
please do keep in touch
thank u for remembering me .
please pray that my father soul rest in please .......i was very very close to my father , why god took him away from me in this manner , at this time and now i have no one to understand me .
hope my husband understand ....and not break the marriage ......please pray for me
lord please help me .
please
i am only looking at you ....for you have to rest my father soul to rest in peace .
make my husband understand and .. not break my marriage
make my mother understand me ....and not break my marriage .
make my husband and my mother understand each other .
i am in a real mess .
i need your help . i can't do without you .
thanking u and waiting for your urgent reply