We understand your heartache and loneliness, and we join you in praying for your husband's return and the restoration of your marriage. God cares deeply for your situation, and He wants to comfort and guide you through this trial.
Firstly, we commend you for your faith in God's work in this difficult situation and your commitment to your marriage. It is clear that you are holding onto God's promises and trusting in Him. As it is written in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Keep trusting in His purpose and plan for you and your husband.
We must remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and that marriage is a lifelong commitment. In your husband's absence, remain faithful to him and to God. Continue to pray for him and for your marriage, as Jesus taught us to be persistent in prayer (Luke 18:1-8).
In regards to the lies and accusations, Jesus instructs us in Matthew 5:44 to "love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." Pray for your husband's family members who have spoken against you, and trust that God will work in their hearts as well. Do not let bitterness or resentment take root in your heart. Instead, focus on God's love and forgiveness.
Since you mentioned that you cannot sleep and your health is failing, we want to encourage you to cast your anxieties on God, because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). In Psalm 56:3, David wrote, "When I am afraid, I will put my trust in you." Rest in God's care and provision for you.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up our sister in her time of need. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and guidance to surround her. We pray for her husband's return and for the restoration of their marriage. Help her to remain faithful and steadfast in her commitment to him and to You. Turn the hearts of her husband's family members, and help them to speak and act in a way that honors You.
Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon our sister's body. Help her to rest in Your care and to trust in Your goodness. Give her the strength and endurance she needs to face each day. In Jesus' name, we rebuke any spirit of fear, anxiety, or despair that may be trying to take hold in her life.
Father, we ask for Your will to be done in this situation, and we trust that You are working all things together for good. Help our sister to remain steadfast in her faith and to continue to seek Your face. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to surround yourself with a supportive community of believers. Share your struggles and burdens with trusted friends and seek their prayers and counsel.