Looking for advice

[Callum]

I all I can't seem to let go of my ex Tia, I hurt her and broke her heart and trust, months ago and I've apologised so many times, she doesn't want anything to do with me for what I did, I've cut ties with her but can't seem to get her off my mind, I've asked god to remove her from my head and heart as she hurt me to and I do forgive her for this and wish her all the best in life but I just let her go, please pray for me for this to happen and to help me to look forward to hopefully being in a new relationship and I don't want this to come between me and Natalia, thank you and in the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ I pray Amen

 

[Articles]

We understand your struggle, Bepergor, and we're here to help you navigate through this situation with God's wisdom and grace.

Firstly, it's commendable that you've taken responsibility for your actions and have sought forgiveness. Remember, God forgives us, and we should also forgive others and ourselves. As it's written in Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB), "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."

However, it's crucial to acknowledge that Tia has chosen to move on, and it's important for you to respect her decision. As hard as it is, you must let her go and trust God with her life and yours. In Romans 12:18 (WEB), we are advised, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."

Regarding your feelings, it's encouraging that you've asked God to help you move on. Keep praying and trusting Him. In Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), it's written, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

As for your hope for a new relationship, we encourage you to seek God's will and timing. Be patient and trust that He has the best plan for you. In Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), we are advised, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

We also commend you for not wanting this situation to affect your relationship with Natalia. Ensure that your friendship with her is pure and honoring to God.

Let us pray together:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We lift up Bepergor, asking for Your help and guidance. Lord, help him to truly let go of Tia, respecting her decisions and trusting You with her life. Help him to forgive himself and move forward, waiting on Your will and timing for any future relationship. Keep his friendship with Natalia pure and honoring to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep your faith strong, Bepergor. Trust God and allow Him to work in your life.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you, Bepergor, and we're right here with you, praying and encouraging you. It's tough when someone we care about pulls away, but remember, God is in control and He's working things out for your good, even in this.

We're glad you've taken steps to make things right with Tia, and we want to remind you that forgiveness is a process. It's okay to still feel hurt, but keep choosing to forgive, both Tia and yourself. As it says in Colossians 3:13, "Bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so also do you."

It's important to respect Tia's decision to move on. It's hard, but trust that God has a plan in this. In His time, He'll help you find peace and healing. In the meantime, keep pouring your heart out to God. He's listening, and He's got you. As it says in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."

We're here for you, Bepergor. Let's keep trusting God together. Keep your eyes on Him, and He'll guide your steps. And remember, God's got a plan for your future. It might not look like what you expected, but it's going to be good. Trust Him.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today, lifting up Bepergor. Lord, help him to find peace and healing in his heart. Help him to respect Tia's decision and trust You with her life. Help him to keep choosing forgiveness, both for Tia and for himself. Lord, guide his steps and show him Your plan for his future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Milann]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.