Lonely 🥺

Kyruyraldor · 2025-01-25T13:04:06-0600

I don't know what to do. I'm so lonely. I spend my days day dreaming about having ppl in my life. Having a partner or meeting my new partner. I pray but nothing. I'm Soo lonely. Oh God!!! Every day...I just wish I had my own family. I'm 50 and have never had kids. My marriage ended a year ago. I thought the man I met during my divorce was going to do right by me. He has a lot of kids and it seemed like I was finally going to get the family I always wanted. We broke up. I'm alone and I hate it. I gained so much weight. I feel so ugly sometimes. I guess I just sit here alone. The sad thing is that I'm scared that if I meet someone they'll eventually reject me or hurt me. Please pray for me...

Articles · 2025-01-25T13:06:23-0600

We understand your feelings of loneliness and your desire for companionship and a family. First, let us remind you that you are never truly alone, for God is always with you. As it says in Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB, Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for Yahweh your God goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you.

However, we must address a few things in your request. You mentioned praying but did not mention praying in the name of Jesus. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it says in John 14:6 WEB, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. If you have not already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and seeking a personal relationship with Him. Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household Acts 16:31 WEB.

Regarding your desire for a partner and a family, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and seek His will for your life. Psalm 37:4 WEB says, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will make your righteousness go forth as the light, and your justice as the noonday Psalm 37:5-6 WEB.

We also want to address the issue of the man you met during your divorce. While we understand your desire for a family, it is crucial to seek God's will in any relationship. If this man is still married or has not yet divorced, pursuing a relationship with him would be adultery, which is sinful and forbidden by God's law. If he is divorced, proceed with prayer and godly counsel.

We rebuke any thoughts that you are ugly or unlovable. God created you in His image, and you are fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14 WEB. Trust in God to bring the right person into your life in His timing. Be equally yoked with a Christian believer and seek godly courtship that leads to marriage. Until that time trust in God and be content and anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God (Philippians 4:6-7 WEB).

Let us pray together for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We lift up Kyruyraldor to You, asking for Your comfort and guidance in their life. We pray that You will heal their feelings of loneliness and rejection, and help them to trust in Your timing and provision. We also rebuke the lie of the enemy that they are unworthy of being loved or unattractive. Help them to see themselves as You see them, created in Your image. We rebuke any fear of rejection and hurt in future relationships. We pray against any weight issues being a stronghold and for discipline and health. We pray that You will bring the right godly spouse into their life in Your timing.

We also pray that Kyruyraldor will seek You first and delight in You, knowing that You will give them the desires of their heart in Your time. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.

hostadmin · 2025-01-25T13:09:28-0600

We're right here with you, Kyruyraldor. We understand the longing for companionship and the fear of rejection that you're feeling. It's tough, but remember, you're never alone. God is always by your side, just like He promised in Deuteronomy 31:6. "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you."

We want to encourage you to keep praying, but this time, let's make sure to pray in Jesus' name. It's through Him that we have access to God, as Jesus said in John 14:6, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and seeking a personal relationship with Him. Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household (Acts 16:31).

Regarding your desire for a partner and a family, we encourage you to trust in God's timing. Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart (Psalm 37:4). Commit your way to the Lord; trust also in Him, and He will do this: He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, the justice of your cause like the noonday sun (Psalm 37:5-6).

We also want to remind you that you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Trust in God to bring the right person into your life in His timing. Be equally yoked with a Christian believer and seek godly courtship that leads to marriage. Until then, trust in God and be content, anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God (Philippians 4:6-7).

Let's continue to pray for you, Kyruyraldor. We're in this together.

Dan T · 2025-01-25T13:16:02-0600

Heavenly Father, you are Jehovah Shalom, our God of Peace and we thank You for your constant companionship. We lift this person to you and request you to fill her with your Spirit of Shalom. Lord, You are the source of perfect peace, and we ask that You quiet every worry, every fear, and every anxious thought within her. We ask you to show her how beautiful she is and fill her heart with your love for her, and bring unity, joy, and blessings into her life. We ask this in Jesus’ name and ask you to allow her to walk through this period with continual thanks and praise to you. Amen.

suja · 2025-01-25T13:42:23-0600

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

Cinu · 2025-01-25T15:27:47-0600

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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EnricoLange · 2025-01-25T16:33:55-0600

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

Emborsuliesh · 2025-01-25T17:17:45-0600

Kyruyraldor said:
I don't know what to do. I'm so lonely. I spend my days day dreaming about having ppl in my life. Having a partner or meeting my new partner. I pray but nothing. I'm Soo lonely. Oh God!!! Every day...I just wish I had my own family. I'm 50 and have never had kids. My marriage ended a year ago. I thought the man I met during my divorce was going to do right by me. He has a lot of kids and it seemed like I was finally going to get the family I always wanted. We broke up. I'm alone and I hate it. I gained so much weight. I feel so ugly sometimes. I guess I just sit here alone. The sad thing is that I'm scared that if I meet someone they'll eventually reject me or hurt me. Please pray for me...

I pray for healing for you. For your mind and spirit to have peace and to be free from these heavy thoughts. I have compassion for you and your desires. I pray that God bless you, heal you, help you and most especially with feeling the love and wholeness and greatness and glory that is within YOU first and foremost. Companionship and connection is great and you are worthy of having that. But you can never be alone if you love your own company and stand in the love and light of the wholeness of what God created in his perfect image which is you. I uplift you in prayer that your partner will find you when you are truly at peace, secure, confident in your skin in order to receive him. And so it is. Amen. God bless you!

The Encourager · 2025-01-25T19:13:42-0600

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.