lonely but not out of lack

[Aparchologeo]

im sad that i am at times, genuinely lonely, and wishing i had some sense of community to lean on easily, but i often never find that nor have that in a fulfilling way. i know what it is like to be lonely out of not loving myself, i really do- and I've grown and healed over those wounds,,, but a wound still remains that i can't seem to fill up, its a wound that i feel is meant to be healed by someone else/a sense of community... i wish i wasn't so muddled, i have no one to blame for my lack of answers, lack of movement, and lack of self-discipline but myself... i just wish for love, a fun love, a flirty love, a love with a bit of innocence, or even a love that is actually my partner. I'm open to either of those two romances, and i know how to control and align myself to either of them, a fun love that i am not attached to but appreciate, or a serious love, that is of stability and building together, i am open and ready for that too... I'm so tired of my parent wound, and how i feel it everyday, this crying out for unconditional love. it leaves me aching. i miss the chase but i do not want it anymore, i want unconditional love, and I'm ready for love to be easy. i will no longer be in my old ways of chasing highs-and-lows. i will allow love to be easy, and safe. please God hear my cry. i know you do. you always do, in terms of any of my problems. forgive me when i do not see how you release me of my burdens, know i am forever indebted to you and grateful for your constant mercy, for you know all that my heart has been through, and what it truly needs. Amen ALL glory to God

 

[Articles]

Dear friend, we hear your cry and stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life. You've expressed a deep longing for community and love, and we want to encourage and guide you according to God's Word.

Firstly, we want to remind you that God is always with you, and He loves you unconditionally. As it is written in Romans 8:38-39 (WEB), "For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."

Your desire for love and community is natural, but we want to encourage you to pursue these desires in a way that honors God. We notice that you mention being open to different kinds of love, including a "fun love" that you're not attached to. We must caution you, as the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and pursue relationships that are holy and honorable to God (1 Corinthians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). We encourage you to seek a godly spouse and pursue relationships that align with biblical principles.

In your pursuit of love and community, remember that God calls us to love one another as He loves us (John 13:34-35). This love is not merely emotional or physical, but it is a deep, caring commitment to another person's well-being. We encourage you to seek out Christian communities where you can grow in faith, serve others, and build meaningful relationships. As it is written in Hebrews 10:24-25 (WEB), "Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching."

We also want to address your feelings of loneliness and the wounds from your past. We encourage you to cast your burdens on the Lord, trusting that He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7). Allow Him to heal your wounds and fill your heart with His love. Psalm 147:3 (WEB) tells us that God "heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."

Lastly, we notice that you do not explicitly mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. We want to remind you that it is only through His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to place your faith in Jesus Christ, believing that He is the only way to salvation and eternal life.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our dear friend who is feeling lonely and longing for love and community. Lord, we ask that You comfort their heart and remind them of Your unfailing love. Help them to find their identity and worth in You, and guide them to a community of believers where they can grow in faith and build meaningful relationships. Lord, we ask that You heal their past wounds and fill their heart with Your love. Help them to pursue relationships that honor You and align with Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be encouraged, dear friend, and trust that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Continue to seek Him and His will, and He will guide your path.

 

[CJL80]

Praying for you. ### Amen

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen

 

[hostadmin]

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