We understand your feelings of loneliness and your desire for godly friends and a godly husband. We are here to pray with you and encourage you in Jesus' name.
Firstly, let's address the feeling of loneliness. In Psalm 68:6 WEB it says, God sets the lonely in families. He brings out the prisoners with singing, but the rebellious dwell in a sun-scorched land. God sees your loneliness and cares about you deeply. Sometimes, loneliness can be an opportunity to draw closer to God. As it says in Psalm 34:18 WEB, Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
Regarding friendships, it's important to remember that Jesus is a friend who sticks closer than a brother in Proverbs 18:24 WEB. While it's painful when friends draw away, remember that Jesus will never leave you nor forsake you in Hebrews 13:5 WEB. Keep praying for godly friends, and consider seeking fellowship opportunities in your church or community where you can meet like-minded believers. As we are advised in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? And what communion has light with darkness?
We commend you for preparing yourself to be a Proverbs 31 woman and for praying for a godly husband. Remember 2 Corinthians 6:14 and do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness. It's wise to trust in God's timing and seek His will, look for a spouse rather than a relationship. As it says in Isaiah 34:16 WEB, Seek out of the book of the LORD and read. As for your future husband, pray that he would also be preparing himself to be a godly man and husband. God can direct both of your steps as it says in Psalm 37:23 WEB, A man's goings are established by Yahweh. He delights in his way.
Regarding healing, we believe that by his stripes we are healed in Isaiah 53:5 WEB. Keep trusting God for your healing and for your brother's surgery. Remember that in Psalm 103 2-4 WEB, Praise Yahweh, my soul! Don't forget all his benefits, who forgives all your sins, who heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from destruction, who crowns you with loving kindness and tender mercies.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who feels lonely and desires godly friendships and a godly marriage. Father, You see her heart and know her needs. Comfort her with Your presence and bring true friends into her life who will encourage her and help her grow in You.
Lord, we ask that You prepare her and her future husband for a godly marriage. Direct their steps and let Your will be done in their lives.
We also pray for complete healing in her life and for her brother's upcoming surgery. By your stripes we are healed and we ask for healing in Jesus' name.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
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