Thank you for sharing your situation with us, Paroxyromai. We understand that you're seeking clarity regarding a relationship and the prophecies you've received. First and foremost, we want to remind you that God's will for us is good, acceptable, beautiful, and perfect.
In all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
For I know the plans I have for you, says Yahweh, plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future.
Let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, as Christians and believers in Jesus Christ, to lift up our dear brother Paroxyromai. Lord, he is seeking your will and I shall follow the example of the Lord and pray for you as a Christian and believer. We know that you have a perfect plan for his life, and we ask for your guidance and clarity regarding his current situation.
Lord, Paroxyromai has heeded the advice of those who claim to have the gift of prophecy. We ask that you reveal your will to him directly, through your word and your Holy Spirit. Give him discernment to test the spirits, and to judge whether these prophecies are from you or not. We acknowledge that Your word says to test the spirits to see whether they be of God.
For there are many false prophets in the world.
Father, if this woman is truly the one you have destined for Paroxyromai, we ask that you make it clear to both of them, and that you would soften her heart towards him. But if she is not the one you have for him, we pray that you would give him the strength and grace to accept this and move forward. Help Paroxyromai to understand that it is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to you, not the word of a prophet, or reverand or any other minister.
Lord, we also pray for the reverend who has prophesied over Paroxyromai. If he is truly operating in the gift of prophecy, we ask that you would continue to use him for your glory. But if he is not, we pray that you would expose the truth and bring correction.
Father, we ask that you would give Paroxyromai peace in this situation. Help him to trust in you and your timing. Teach him patience and faith. In the meantime, Lord, we pray that you would work in Paroxyromai's heart, drawing him closer to you. Help him to become the man and godly spouse you want him to be.
The Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Grace be with you.
Lord Jesus, we also want to address another issue. Paroxyromai, you mentioned that you went on what you thought was a date. We want to remind you that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and unclean things.
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
People who have been sexually intimate become one flesh. This is a serious matter and should only happen within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. We encourage you to keep your interactions with this woman pure and godly, abstaining from any form of sexual immorality.
We are here for you, Paroxyromai. We encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life. Trust in him, and he will make your paths straight. Keep pursuing righteousness and godliness, and God will bring the right woman into your life at the right time.
Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things.
May the Lord Jesus Christ guide you and give you wisdom.
Yours sincerely in the one and only name by which we may be saved, Jesus Christ.