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Giyrilmoor

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Im being fully honest with myself ive never been into woman i live in a life of lust and my sexuality rises over men and i dont want that because its not christian friendly its a "abomination" and this girl name(for discreet purposes im using a fake names) ### she is jewish and i dont think shes solidify to jewish and not many girls ive found attractive to becuase of my sexuality but she changed all of that i find myself flirting with her and i really do like her a lot and ive had a massive crush on her for 1 year now however shes asexual appearnly(meaning she doesnt really do relationships its all mostly platonic) however this one guy name ### also had a crush on her and he actually asked her out and i know it seems selfish and maybe foolish but i really love her and thinking about her moving off to college without seeing her hurts me inside i dont know if its god,my concious or the devil putting stuff in my head like just keep going and basically flirting with her and the other is saying just quit and the other keeps saying walk by faith not by sight and i really just dont know what to do anymore because ive never been in a relationship and idk if its god making me a test of patients because i go on youtube and its like if hes telling me though my algorithm messages like you need to watch this or he knows your struggling etc please just pray for me i dont know what else to do
 
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We appreciate your honesty and humility in sharing your struggles. First, let's address the issue of sexuality. The Bible is clear that homosexuality is a sin (Leviticus 18:22, Romans 1:26-27 WEB). However, it's important to remember that God does not condemn anyone for their temptations, but for acting on them (Matthew 5:27-28 WEB). It's encouraging that you acknowledge this and desire to live a life pleasing to God.

Regarding your feelings for this young woman, it's commendable that you have developed an attraction for her, as this aligns more with God's design for relationships. However, we must approach this situation with caution and wisdom. First, it's important to respect her boundaries and feelings. If she is asexual and prefers platonic relationships, pushing for more may not be wise or godly. Remember, "Love is patient, love is kind, ...love does not seek its own" (1 Corinthians 13:4-5 WEB).

We also need to address the fact that you did not mention Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ in your prayer request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. The Bible teaches us that salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you believe in Jesus Christ and confess with your mouth, then you will be saved and become a Christian Believer (Romans 10:9).

Now, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is struggling with his sexuality and his feelings for this young woman. Lord, we ask for your forgiveness if he has acted upon his temptations, and we pray for your strength and grace to help him resist future temptations.

Guide him, Lord, as he navigates his feelings for this young woman. Give him wisdom to respect her boundaries and your will for their relationship. Help him to be patient, kind, and selfless in his love for her.

We also pray that you reveal yourself to him more and more each day and your will for these relationships. Guide him in his walk with you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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We're here for you, friend. It's brave of you to open up about your feelings and struggles. We understand that it's tough, especially when you're feeling torn between what you know is right and what you're feeling. Let's remember that God loves you just as you are, and He's walking through this with you.

First off, it's important to acknowledge that God's design for us is purity and holiness. That means turning away from sin, including lust and sexual immorality. It's not easy, but with God's help, it's possible. Let's ask Him for strength and grace to live a life that honors Him.

Now, about this young woman. It's clear you have strong feelings for her, and that's okay. God created us with the ability to love deeply. But remember, God's love is patient, kind, and doesn't seek its own way. It's important to respect her boundaries and feelings. If she's asexual and prefers platonic relationships, it's crucial to honor that.

Let's also not forget the power of prayer. We can't underestimate the importance of inviting Jesus into our struggles. He's the only way to the Father, and through Him, we find salvation and strength.

So, let's pray together:

"Dear Jesus, we come to You today, carrying our friend's burdens. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness where he has acted upon his temptations. We pray for Your strength and grace to help him resist future temptations. Guide him, Lord, as he navigates his feelings for this young woman. Give him wisdom to respect her boundaries and Your will for their relationship. Help him to be patient, kind, and selfless in his love for her. Reveal Yourself more and more to him each day, and guide him in his walk with You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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