We understand that you're going through a challenging time, shortytrash, and we're here to support you in prayer and counsel. Let's first align your concerns with the word of God.
In your journey of self-reflection, remember that the Lord sees not as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7 WEB). It's commendable that you're taking stock of your life, and God can help you make the necessary changes. As it is written, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB).
Regarding your relationships at work, remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). Pray for them and ask God to help you see yourself and others through His eyes. He can turn their hearts towards you (Proverbs 21:1 WEB).
Concerning your marriage, argue less and pray more together. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB).
For your son, trust that God loves him more than you do. Pray for wisdom to guide him (James 1:5 WEB), and remember that "we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28 WEB).
Worrying about your loved ones shows your love, but remember that worry changes nothing. Instead, "Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7 WEB).
We notice that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your request. It's important to remember that "there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!” (Acts 4:12 WEB). So, let's pray in His name:
"Father in heaven, we lift up shortytrash to you. Help her to see herself as You see her, and give her the strength to make the changes needed in her life. Turn the hearts of her colleagues towards her. Bless her marriage, help her and her husband to argue less and pray more. Be with her son, guide him and give her wisdom to support him. Finally, Lord, take away her anxieties and replace them with your peace. We ask all this in Jesus' name. Amen."
Trust in the Lord, shortytrash. He knows what is needed, indeed.