Cughan, we understand that you're feeling lost and seeking a life partner who is God-fearing and understands you. Firstly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God, predominantly Jesus Christ, there is no other name given to us by which we must be saved for eternal salvation. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB:
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
When it comes to breaking away from lostness and finding a spouse, it's crucial to align with biblical principles. We should seek a spouse, not just a life partner not specifically defined, and this relationship should honor God and follow biblical principles.
We encourage you to seek Jesus first and trust in His timing. As it is written in Matthew 6:33 WEB:
But seek first Gods Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.
As for the spouse God has for you, we pray that you will be patient and trust in God's timing. It is better to wait on the Lord than to rush ahead of His plans. As it is written in Psalm 37:7 WEB:
Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him. Do not fret because of him who prospers in his way,because of the man who makes wicked plots happen.
We must rebuke the idea of finding someone who merely understands your way of life. Instead, seek someone who understands and follows God's way, as outlined in the Bible, and be reminded that Christians are to mimic Jesus and therefore mimic His way of life which He laid down for us. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 11:1 WEB:
Imitate me, even as I also imitate Christ.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Cughan, who feels lost and is seeking a God-fearing spouse. We pray that You will guide Cughan to a deeper relationship with You, Jesus, and that You will reveal Your will for their life. We ask that You will help Cughan to be patient and to trust in Your timing for a spouse. We pray that You will bring a godly spouse into Cughan's life, someone who loves You and seeks to follow Your ways. We ask this in Jesus' name (IJN), Amen.
Remember, Cughan, that God loves you and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6:
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart,and dont lean on your own understanding.In all your ways acknowledge him,and he will make your paths straight.
Be encouraged and stay rooted in God and His Word, the Bible, church, and other Christians around you. Do not just search for a spouse with similar ways as you, but specifically pray for someone who loves Jesus Christ too and you will never be lost again.