Letting Go

Kimanothal · Dec 19, 2024

Please pray for me to be able to let go of a toxic person narcissist whatever he is to let go of him in my life we were in a relationship for over 5 years or close to 5 years even though I know he was like this I stayed with them because I love him I need to let go of that love and move on so I cannot be hurt by him anymore this affects every part of my life 24 hours a day and my health is deteriorated my mental status has deteriorated I'm so emotional whenever I think of him I don't know why I can't let him go he's addicted to drugs and that's his way of life I need to find a way to not think about him anymore so that I can heal and move on I also don't know if I should pray for him although I have in the past but I never pray for us to be together I pray that he gets healed so that he can have a good life and know what it's like to be loved or to love somebody unconditionally I'm tired of his games his manipulations everything and I'm at the point where I want to do back to him what he did to me I want revenge please help me. Thank you for your support

Articles · Dec 19, 2024

We understand that you're going through a difficult time, Kimanothal, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth according to the Word of God.

Firstly, we need to address the spiritual aspect of your request. You mentioned that you need to let go of this toxic person, but you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. The Bible tells us:

For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all. This was the testimony given at the proper time. (1 Timothy 2:5-6 WEB)

We encourage you to come to the knowledge of the truth of Jesus Christ. Jesus said

I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. (John 14:6).

Now, concerning your relationship, it is clear that it was not grounded in biblical principles. The fact that you were in a relationship with a man who is addicted to drugs and exhibits narcissistic tendencies suggests a departure from God's design for healthy, godly relationships. Here is what God expects,

Do not be deceived. Bad company corrupts good manners. (1 Corinthians 15:33 WEB)

We rebuke you in the name of Jesus that you are to avoid seeking revenge. You admitted to wanting revenge. This is not Christ-like. God expects us to do the opposite,

If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. (Romans 12:18)

After theзно reminding, we find solace and guidance:

He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. (Psalm 147:3)

Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up Kimanothal. We pray the blood of Jesus would cover her and that you would deliver her from this toxic and unhealthy relationship. God, you see the pain, the hurt, and the deterioration of her heart, mind, and body. We ask that you break every ungodly soul tie between her and this man. Deliver her from the lusts of her heart, and let her find new love in you and allow you to bring a godly spouse into her life. Heal her broken heart, Lord, and help her to let go of the past. Help her to stay focused on that. Anoint her mind, body, emotions, soul and physical being in the name of the Blood of Jesus.

Father, we also pray for this man. We pray that you deliver him from his addictions and draw him to yourself so that he can find healing and a new life in Christ. We do not pray that you would bring them back together but that your will be done in both of their lives. Finally in Jesus' name, we ask for God to delivery Kimanothal from the desire for revenge for all eternity, Amen.

hostadmin · Dec 19, 2024

We're here for you, sister. We understand the struggle you're going through, and we want you to know that you're not alone. It's tough letting go of someone you've loved for so long, especially when they've caused you so much pain. But remember, God is near, and He wants to heal you.

You've mentioned feeling emotionally drained and unable to let go. We want to encourage you to cast your cares upon Jesus. He promises to give you rest (Matthew 11:28-30). Trust Him with your hurt and your healing.

We also want to remind you that God has a plan for your life, and it doesn't involve being in a toxic relationship. As it's written in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body." It's time to break free from this cycle and walk in the freedom that Christ has bought for you.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You today. We ask that You would heal her broken heart and mind. Help her to let go of the past and find new life in You. Give her the strength to walk away from this toxic relationship and to trust in Your plan for her life.

Lord, we also pray for this man. We ask that You would draw him to Yourself and help him find healing and deliverance from his addictions. Help him to understand the pain he's caused and to seek forgiveness and change.

Finally, we ask that You would deliver our sister from the desire for revenge. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, and to trust in Your justice.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

bobr69 · Dec 19, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Dec 19, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Cinu · Dec 20, 2024

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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hostadmin · Dec 25, 2024

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, as you navigate through this challenging time. We are truly honored that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and stand in agreement with you before the Lord. If you have found the strength to let go and have experienced healing, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report and celebrate with you.

If, however, you are still struggling, we want you to know that you are not alone. We encourage you to share your request again, so we can continue to intercede for you and cry out to the Lord on your behalf. We pray fervently for God to grant you the strength to let go of this toxic relationship, to heal your heart, mind, and body, and to help you move forward in freedom and peace.

We also pray for your former partner, that he would find deliverance from his addictions and experience the transforming love of Jesus. We ask the Lord to help you forgive, not for the sake of your former partner, but for your own healing and wholeness. We pray that any thoughts of revenge would be replaced with thoughts of love and forgiveness, trusting that justice is in God's hands.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We declare His love, strength, and peace over you in Jesus Name.