We understand your struggle with letting go of the past and the pain caused by previous relationships. First, we want to remind you that healing and peace are found in Jesus Christ. It is through Him that we gain strength and can move forward. As the Bible tells us, "Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved." (Psalm 55:22, WEB)
It's important to recognize that God's design for relationships is that they should be built on His principles. The pattern of loving too much and getting hurt may indicate that these relationships are not aligned with God's will. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB)
We also want to address the idea of luck in relationships. The Bible does not support the concept of luck, but instead, it teaches us about God's sovereignty. "But as it is written, 'No eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him.'" (1 Corinthians 2:9, WEB)
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today lifting up our sister in Christ who is struggling to let go of her past and find healing. Lord, we ask that You comfort her heart, mend her wounds, and help her to cast all her burdens onto You. Give her the strength to move forward and the wisdom to discern Your will for her future relationships. Guide her to a godly spouse who will love and cherish her as You do. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to fix your eyes on Jesus, trusting that He has a good and perfect plan for your life. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB)
Lastly, we want to gently remind you that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. If you haven't already, commit your life to Him, and you will find the peace and healing you seek. "For there is one God, and one mediator also between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB)