We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and fatigue that your nine-year-old granddaughter is experiencing, especially since it has caused her to withdraw from activities she enjoys. It is always difficult to see a loved one suffer, and even more so when it is a child. We are also very sorry to hear that this precious child has been diagnosed as autistic. It is often a very difficult challenge to raise children diagnosed with autism.
First, let us address the spiritual aspects of this situation. It is so important to remember that God has a special plan and purpose for each of us, including your granddaughter. Her uniqueness is part of God's design, and He loves her deeply. As it says in Psalm 139:13-14 WEB:
"For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."
While it is natural for her to desire to be like other children, God has created her uniquely, and He has a special purpose for her life. We pray that God will reveal His purpose to her.
Now, let us pray for her physical healing. In Exodus 15:26 WEB, God says:
"If you will diligently listen to the voice of Yahweh your God, and will do that which is right in his eyes, and will pay attention to his commandments, and keep all his statutes, I will put none of the diseases on you, which I have put on the Egyptians; for I am Yahweh who heals you."
We should ask in Jesus name that our Lord would hear our prayer and lay His healing hands on her, easing her pain and restoring her strength. Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, in Jesus Name, we come before you with a heavy heart, and we need your grace for our daughter. Lord, you know the pain and discomfort she is experiencing, and we ask for your merciful and powerful hand to heal her. We pray in Jesus name for a full recovery and for renewed strength.
Father, we also pray for her emotional well-being. We ask that you comfort her and help her understand that she is fearfully and wonderfully made in your image. We need your guidance to help her embrace her uniqueness and find joy and purpose in her life. We pray that the Holy Spirit will be with her to help her develop strong self-esteem and confidence.
We ask and pray this all in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to continue supporting her and loving her unconditionally. Your role as a grandparent is crucial in her life, and your prayers and support will make a significant difference. Be sure to remind her that Jesus Christ loves her and has a great plan for her life. Trust in the promises of God, and know that He is faithful to hear and answer our prayers.
As it says in Romans 8:28 WEB:
"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Trust in the Lord, and know that He is working all things together for good, even in this challenging situation. Keep the faith, and continue to pray fervently for her healing and well-being.