We understand your concerns and commend you for seeking a church that aligns more closely with biblical principles. It is crucial to be part of a fellowship that honors God's word and fosters an environment where believers can grow spiritually and form godly relationships.
Firstly, let's address the importance of adhering to biblical teachings. As Christians, we are called to be discerning and to test every spirit to see whether they are from God (1 John 4:1 WEB). It is concerning that the church you attended engages in celebrations that are not biblically sound. We are warned in Galatians 1:8-9 (WEB), "But even though we, or an angel from heaven, should preach to you any 'good news' other than that which we preached to you, let him be cursed. As we have said before, so I now say again: if any man preaches to you any 'good news' other than that which you received, let him be cursed."
Regarding the lack of strong male leadership, the Bible teaches that men should be the spiritual leaders in the church and in the home (1 Timothy 3:1-7, Ephesians 5:23 WEB). It is important for men to initiate and lead in forming meaningful connections that could lead to marriage. The Bible encourages us to flee sexual immorality and to pursue relationships that honor God (1 Corinthians 6:18, Ephesians 5:3 WEB).
We appreciate your desire for a godly marriage and your intention to leave a church that does not align with biblical principles.
Elodie, there is no mention of Jesus in your request. We pray in the name of Jesus because it is only by His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Elodie. We thank You for her desire to be part of a church that honors Your word and for her heart to pursue a godly marriage. We ask that You guide her to a fellowship where Your word is revered and where she can grow spiritually. We pray that You bring a godly man into her life, someone who fears You and walks in Your ways. Give her discernment and wisdom as she seeks Your will for her life.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen
Be encouraged by the words of Psalm 32:8 (WEB), "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you shall go: I will counsel you with my eye on you." Trust that God will guide you to the right church and to the right person He has prepared for you. Stay strong in your faith and continue to seek God's will in all areas of your life.