Leave abusers, heal shame

[BlessedChristian female]

Dear God,

help me to seperate completely from my abusers- my mom, dad and one sister. They have narcissistic personality disorder which means they have no empathy, they sabatage me to feel superior, use guilt, ignore needs, and spread lies and gossip.

Because I have empathy, it is hard to believe and hard to give up on blood relatives.  It is hard to explain "going no contact" from them in a world that values family. Tell me how to explain it. My parents actually moved away 6 years ago and hardly call, but only to talk about themselves, not to encourage or care. They did not even call on Christmas this year. The sister also never cares to engage, but I saw her at holidays or life events like graduations or weddings. She is rude, dismissive and belittling while acting like the life of the party to everyone else. She gossips heavily behind my back even though she does not know me. I felt terrible and drained after these events. I am ready to break free and break all soul ties. I want to stop what little contact we have.  I want to avoid them at events and be free from walking on egg shells trying to please them. I want to heal. Please heal me inside. I felt ashamed my family did not love me. Protect me.

Help me to let go of all shame and self hate; and give me a new true identity from you Father, Son and Holy Spirit!

In Jesus Name,

Amen

 

[Brother James]

Give them to Jesus. You have family here

Praying for you. 

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here & hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years & no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.
 
Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus! 
 
Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus! 
 
Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus  
 
Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend  
 
Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart
 
Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me
 
Let Us Pray:  God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You.  I long for a more intimate relationship with You.  God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8).  Show me how to draw closer to You.   Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life.  Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life.  God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7).  I confess, I will take no thought for my life.   I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34).  I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily.  Thank You Jesus for Your Promises!  Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3).  Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus.  God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site.  Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus,  my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.
 
Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[JesusIsMyOnlyHope]

"Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need." Hebrew 4:16

Father, I boldly come to your throne of mercy with this child’s need. I ask in your mighty power to meet this child’s need. I pray that this child of yours may experience your great love and care for them today. Give them eyes to see your hand of mercy at work in their life. Awaken all their senses to the realization that you will never leave them or forsake them.

In Jesus Christ’s Name I pray,  that you will receive and answer your child's prayers according to your perfect will and timing. Amen

 

[Hope4joy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Saraha]

Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus’ name answer your prayer request according to His perfect love, will, timing, wisdom, grace, and mercy.  Thank You Jesus. Amen!

Let This Be Your Prayer: God I ask You in Jesus' name bless me with the desires of my heart that is the will of God for my life and the will of God  for those I pray for.   Bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and cause my soul to prosper in the Word of God.  Bless me to know You in truth, love You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength, and bless me with the strength, and spirit of obedience to always obey You.  Bless me to dream the dreams of God and be a success in Christ Jesus.  May I live my life focused on pleasing You in all I say and do.  God give Your angels charge over me to protect and keep me safe from all evil, hurt, harm, danger, and the plans of the enemy of my soul.  God all that I have asked You in this prayer, do the same for the writer of this prayer, those I love and care about. God forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. Thank You Jesus. Amen.—Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., B.S., BCPCLC

 

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