Learn to Love

[Anonymous]

Lord, I hate myself. Every mistake I start to doubt myself and hate my whole being. I know this comes from my pride. Just now, I discovered another mistake I made. I forgot to turn in an assignment and my grade got lower. I have an exam soon but I find myself avoiding to study for it. No motivation and so burned out. I hate myself so much for not remembering and being lazy. I hate myself from procrastinating. I want to fix my sin of laziness and procrastination, loving to pursue temporary things of pleasure and trying so hard to forget about reality. Avoiding tasks that I should be doing. Lord, only you can fix me. Lord, please help this soul. I hate myself. I’m sorry. I hate myself so much for seeking you then going back to my ways. No one can serve two masters, and I hate my whole being for knowing this but still doing. Lord, please help me. In Jesus name I pray

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the struggle with self-hatred and procrastination. It's important to remember that God loves us deeply, and His love is not based on our performance or lack of mistakes. He says I have loved you with an everlasting love therefore with loving kindness I have drawn you. The WEB translation of Jeremiah 31.3 Let's address the situation with biblical principles and prayer.

Firstly, it's crucial to understand that God's view of us is not based on our self-perception or feelings, but on the perfect sacrifice of Jesus Christ. When believe in Jesus Christ and we are in Him, we are made righteous and holy in God's sight, we are no longer guilty because we are no longer sin. Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. The WEB translation of Romans 8.1 This is regardless of how we feel about ourselves, He wants us to know that I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope in your latter end. The WEB translation of Jeremiah 29.11

The feelings of self-hatred and doubt can often stem from ungodly pride, which is a focus on self rather than on God. As it is written, For I know that in me that is, in my flesh, dwells no good thing: for to will is present with me, but to do that which is good is not. The WEB translation of Romans 7.18 This pride can lead to a critical spirit towards oneself and others. It's important to repent of this pride and ask God to replace it with humility and love.

Procrastination and laziness are indeed issues that need to be addressed, as they can lead to further problems and hinder us from fulfilling God's purpose for our lives. The Bible tells us that Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in Sheol, where you are going. The WEB translation of Ecclesiastes 9.10

Let's not allow ourselves to avoid tasks due to feelings of burnout or lack of motivation. Instead, let's trust in God to renew our strength and help us accomplish what needs to be done. But those who wait on the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary; and they shall walk and not faint. The WEB translation of Isaiah 40.31

Now, let's pray for guidance and strength:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up this precious soul who is struggling with self-hatred, procrastination, and laziness. Lord, we know that these issues are not part of Your will for our lives. We repent of the pride that leads to these feelings and actions. Lord Jesus Christ, Your came to set us free, and You have delivered us from the power of darkness, and translated us into the kingdom of your dear Son. WEB translation of Colossians 1.13

Father, we ask that You fill us with Your Holy Spirit, renewing our minds and giving us the strength to overcome these struggles. Help us to see ourselves as You see us, loved, forgiven, and redeemed. Give us the wisdom and motivation to tackle our responsibilities with diligence and joy.

In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

As a final encouragement, consider this verse: For it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure. The WEB translation of Philippians 2.13 Trust in God's work in our lives, and let's press on towards the goal of living in His purpose and love.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, and we're sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing. It's important to remember that God sees you through the lens of Jesus' sacrifice, not your mistakes or feelings. He loves you deeply, and His love is unconditional. Let's tackle this together.

Firstly, it's crucial to understand that God's view of you is not based on your self-perception or feelings, but on Jesus' perfect sacrifice. When you believe in Jesus, you're made righteous and holy in God's sight. There's no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1). God wants you to know, "I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope in your latter end" (Jeremiah 29:11).

The feelings of self-hatred and doubt can stem from ungodly pride, which focuses on self rather than God. Let's repent of this pride and ask God to replace it with humility and love. Remember, "For I know that in me, that is, in my flesh, dwells no good thing: for to will is present with me, but to do that which is good is not" (Romans 7:18).

Procrastination and laziness are indeed issues that need to be addressed. Let's not avoid tasks due to feelings of burnout or lack of motivation. Instead, trust in God to renew your strength. "But those who wait on the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary, and they shall walk and not faint" (Isaiah 40:31).

Let's pray for guidance and strength:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up this precious soul. Lord, we know that these issues are not part of Your will for our lives. We repent of the pride that leads to these feelings and actions. Lord Jesus Christ, You came to set us free, and You have delivered us from the power of darkness, and translated us into the kingdom of Your dear Son. Fill us with Your Holy Spirit, renewing our minds and giving us the strength to overcome these struggles. Help us to see ourselves as You see us, loved, forgiven, and redeemed. Give us the wisdom and motivation to tackle our responsibilities with diligence and joy. In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."

As a final encouragement, consider this verse: "For it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure" (Philippians 2:13). Trust in God's work in your life, and let's press on towards living in His purpose and love. You're not alone; we're here for you, every step of the way.

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in our prayers, dear brother or sister in Christ. We are truly honored that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and stand in agreement with you before the throne of grace. If you have seen improvements in your self-perception and motivation, we would be delighted if you could share a praise report with us all. If you are still struggling with self-doubt, procrastination, and lack of motivation or If you feel that your request has not been answered yet, please do not hesitate to post it again as a new request. We are here to continue praying with you and for you.

We pray that God will help you to see yourself through His eyes, full of love and compassion. May He fill you with His strength to overcome procrastination and pursue His best for you. Remember, God is not finished with you yet. He is working in you, shaping you into the image of His Son.

We declare with belief that Christ, who started a good work in you, will complete his mission. We acknowledge your frustration with your perceived shortcomings, but remind you of the truth in Romans 8:1,"There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." God loves you unconditionally.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will experience His love, His help and His transformation in your life. We agree that the joy of the Lord will be your strength and your motivation. In Jesus Name, Amen.