Layers of grief- need prayers to “unpack” all of it

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    🙏 🙏 Let's lift up these needs in prayer! @PrayerWarrior360's family needs continued support, especially for their pregnancy and visa application. @Fuymar's son Patrick needs deliverance from depression and hardship. @Treeth (18) requests prayers for health recovery and freedom from addiction. @Vltoutar needs prayers for family reconciliation. Let's also pray for @Nalaowell's son Nathan's complete knee recovery. God is faithful! 😊
  2. Phudale Phudale:
    Prayers for the Lord to open my wife’s eyes , prayers for a prudent wife and discernment wisdom and patience for both of us. I’m not supposed to be someone’s throw mat especially at 53. I should be concerned with my 7 children , not if this woman is going to choose to respect me today or any other day. I’m tired .
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    🙏 Let's lift up Phudale's marriage. "Lord, open his wife's eyes & grant them wisdom & patience. 'Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.' (Eph 5:22) 'Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church.' (Eph 5:25) Guide them to respect & cherish each other. In Jesus' name!" 💖
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    🙏 Hello everyone! Let's lift up these requests in Jesus' Name:

    💐 @Calfa needs continued healing for stomach & ear issues, protection for her & brother Steve from anxiety.
    🌳 Gallann seeks breakthroughs for stroke cure research.
    🏥 PrayerWarrior360 celebrates approved Medicare, prays for baby's health & visa approval.
    💔 Fuymar's son Patrick needs support & resources to overcome depression & homelessness.
    🌪 Anonymous requests protection from storms & persecutions.
    🙏 Treeth (18) asks for healing, strength, & deliverance from addiction.

    Let's pray & encourage each other! 🙌💖
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    🙏 🤗 Hello everyone! Let's lift up @lost_soul who's seeking job opportunities and financial security for their family. Also, let's pray for warmth and safety during this cold weather (@Saraha), and for healing and protection for @Calfa and their brother. Mentioning all in Jesus' name! 🙏💕

Anonymous

Beloved of All
Lord. I had no closure with my parent before they passed away and I grove their physical death as well as for the relationship that I wish we had. Secondly I was manipulated by the parent until they passed away. My identity was eroded. Finally the bosses at my job had no compassion when I was caring for that parent and wanted me out. Too much emotional turmoil. It’s now coming to the surface and it’s alot to deal with. Lord Jesus Christ can you feel my pain and will you do something about it please. I forgive and also acknowledge the unhealthy dynamic.
 
We are truly sorry to hear about the layers of grief and pain you are experiencing. Firstly, we want to remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18 WEB. It's important to remember that God cares about your pain, and you can cast all your anxieties on him because he cares for you 1 Peter 5:7 WEB.

You mentioned that you didn't have closure with your parent before they passed away. We have the ultimate hope that through Jesus Christ those who die in Christ are just sleeping. We grieve but not like those who have no hope of eternity. 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 Do not be ignorant, brothers, concerning those who have fallen asleep, so that you do not grieve like the rest, who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus. WEB

Regarding their manipulation, we understand that it has distorted your sense of identity. Remember, your true identity is in Christ.

You are complete in Him Colossians 2:10 WEB. You are a child of God. If you continue in My word, then you are truly My disciples. You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free. John 8:31,32. Therefore, if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36 WEB. Free from your past and the manipulation that occurred before. It's important to speak forgiveness as you did over the situation but also claim the promises of God regarding your identity and future.

Concerning your workplace, remember that God sees all that is happening. If you have been treated unfairly and have no recourse, remember the words of Peter: For what credit is it if, when you sin and are beaten, you endure? But when you do well and suffer, and take it patiently, this is commendable with God. For to this were you called, because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should follow his steps 1 Peter 2:20-21 WEB. Christ's response to unfair treatment was to press into God more deeply and continue in obedience. We advise you to do the same.

Let's pray together:

Father, we come before you and ask You to surround Anonymous with your healing love and grace. We ask you to lift the weight of grief and manipulation and help Anonymous to truly claim their identity in you. We ask You to remove any walls that have been created to cope with this loss and manipulation and instead build a stronger, better relationship with you, Jesus Christ. You are the great Healer and you can take these hurts and turn them around for your glory. Please give Anonymous wisdom regarding their workplace and help them to have a spirit of forgiveness and obedience regardless of how they are treated. We are thankful that we can come to You in the name of Jesus Christ and only through You can we be saved. If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. Romans 10:9-10 WEB We pray all these things in Jesus' precious name, Amen.
 
We're here with you, feeling your pain and the weight of your experiences. We know it's tough, but remember, God is right there with you, every step of the way. He sees your grief, your anger, your confusion, and He's there to help you unpack it all.

We're sorry you didn't get to have that closure with your parent. But remember, in Christ, death is not the end. It's just a new beginning. And while we miss them, we don't grieve like those who have no hope. Jesus is coming back, and we'll be reunited in Him.

That manipulation was harmful, but it's in the past. Your true identity is in Christ. You're His beloved child, complete in Him. Forgive as you've done, and claim your freedom in Him. He's making all things new, including you.

At work, it's hard when others don't understand or care. But remember, God sees it all. He's with you, and He'll give you the strength to endure and the wisdom to know what to do. Keep your heart right, and trust that He's working it all out for your good.

Let's pray together: Father, we ask you to heal Anonymous' heart. Help them to let go of the past, to forgive, and to find their true identity in You. Give them peace, wisdom, and strength for the journey ahead. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother or sister, thanking you for the privilege of interceding on your behalf. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer, and we want to remind you that you are not alone in this journey.

If you have found comfort and healing in the Lord, we would be blessed to hear your praise report, so that we may rejoice with you. If the layers of grief still feel heavy and the burden seems unchanged, we encourage you to share your heart with us again. Let us continue to petition the Lord together for your emotional healing, for a restoration of your identity in Christ, and for His peace to rule in your heart.

We are praying that the Lord would help you to forgive, as you have expressed your desire to do so, and that He would bring healing to the memories of your relationship with your parent. We also ask the Lord to give you wisdom and guidance in your workplace, and that He would soften the hearts of your bosses.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for you to have a deep and comforting sense of Jesus' abiding love and presence with you in these times of emotional turmoil. We know that He feels your pain and He will not leave you to suffer alone, He loves you and will see you through this. Praying for you in Jesus Name.
 

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