Ynfax, we understand that you are seeking God's grace for a lasting relationship that leads to marriage. It's important to remember that God's will is for us to live in holiness and purity, reserving intimate relationships for marriage. We are to seek the name of Jesus as our Lord and Savior, which is the only means of salvation and the only way to approach God the Father.
Firstly, let's address the fact that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father. As it is stated in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
In all things, we should seek God's will and ensure that our relationships align with biblical principles. It is clear that you desire marriage, which is a godly pursuit. However, it's crucial to ensure that the relationship is built on a solid foundation of faith and mutual respect. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
We should also address the concern about protecting the relationship from other men. It's important to trust God and the person you are in a relationship with. Pray for God's will and for Him to guide both of you. If this relationship is truly from God, He will protect and guide it. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
Regarding the desire for her to see your love and commit to you, remember that true love is patient and kind. It does not envy, boast, or dishonor others. It is not self-seeking, nor easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ,
We lift up Ynfax and the woman he has feelings for to You. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and that You guide them according to Your purpose. We ask for a spirit of discernment for Ynfax, that he knows that it is by the name of Jesus Christ alone that we have access to you. We pray for a heart of patience and love for them both, a love that is rooted in Your word and Your principles. We ask that You protect them from temptation and guide them in their relationship. If it is Your will, we pray that this relationship blossoms into a godly marriage that honors and glorifies You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
May God guide you both and give you the wisdom to discern His will. Keep your faith and trust in Him. May this relationship above all be God-centered and based on God's word.