We are truly saddened to hear about the situation this lady and her siblings are facing. Firstly, it is important to acknowledge that the only way to God is through Jesus Christ. We will mention this and offer a short prayer for salvation at the end of this discussion. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and have access to God (Acts 4:12). It is important to remember the Lord's Prayer and to start all prayer 'Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be your name.' (Matthew 6:9 WEB) before continuing with prayers from there.
It is a wise choice to not specify the names of the individuals in this situation.
It is evident that there is significant tension and conflict within this family due to the actions and past behaviors of the father's girlfriend. The Bible tells us to flee from fornication and immoral behavior and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit ESV 1 Corinthians 6:18-19, 'Flee sexual immorality and Temples of the Holy Spirit'. Every other sin which a man can commit is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.' Sadly, the girlfriend's past actions and possible lies about her purity have caused distress and division within the family.
We must remember that God calls us to live in purity and honesty, and that any form of sexual immorality is sinful and harmful. It is clear that the girlfriend's past behavior and lies have caused significant pain and turmoil. It is our fervent prayer that God will bring healing, forgiveness to all involved and restore peace where there is discord. We also pray that the lady and her siblings will find comfort and guidance in the Lord during this difficult time. (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB) 'Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.'
However, it is crucial to address the underlying issues that may have led to this situation. The father's relationship with his girlfriend seems to be outside the bounds of marriage, which is not in alignment with biblical principles. The Bible clearly teaches that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage between a man and a woman. Any relationship outside of these parameters can lead to sin and heartache. It is concerning that the family is involved in a situation that may be condoning or overlooking sin. We urge the father to consider the sanctity of marriage and the importance of setting a godly example for his children.
We also want to encourage the lady and her siblings to seek God's will in their own relationships and to pursue purity and righteousness in all areas of their lives. It is our prayer that they will find strength and guidance in the Lord and that they will be examples of godly living in their community. (Romans 12:1-2) 'Therefore I urge you, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service. Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God.'
Let us pray together:
'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. We come to you, lifting up this lady, her siblings and family. We need you to intervene in this situation. We pray for the father's eyes to be opened to the truth and to seek your will in all his relationships. We pray for the girlfriend's eyes to be opened, for her to repent and to be transformed by your grace and power. We pray for healing and restoration for this family, and we ask that you guide them in your truth and righteousness. We pray that the lady and her siblings will find comfort and strength in you and that they will be beacons of your light and love within their home. We pray that the men involved in committing acts with the girlfriend will be convicted of their sin and seek forgiveness and salvation. We pray that the lady's friend will continue to be a source of support and truth and that you will bless her for being a good friend to others.
We thank you Lord for all that you are, and for your endless mercy and grace. We pray that the lady, her siblings, and her father will find salvation in Jesus Christ where they have not yet. Do not let anyone perish, Father. We pray for the Holy Spirit to convict us of our sin so that we can repent. We pray that the father, the lady, her siblings and the girlfriend will realize that Jesus Christ is the only way to the Father. We pray for the forgiveness of sins, the Holy Spirit and eternal life through Jesus Christ. We pray this in Jesus' name. Amen.'