Lack of self confidence, low self esteem and no abilities

[Elodie]

I earnestly request your prayers, as I am grappling with profound low self-confidence and self-esteem issues that have persisted since childhood. Throughout my early years, I experienced bullying related to my appearance and hair, which instilled a lasting sense of unattractiveness within me. I was never among the popular peers, lacking both friends and admirers. These challenges have followed me into my teenage years and young adulthood, and even at the age of 41, I continue to struggle with self-acceptance. My hair, in particular, is a source of significant dissatisfaction due to its unmanageable nature. Furthermore, I perceive myself as lacking in talents and capabilities, which exacerbates my feelings of inadequacy. I tend to shy away from challenges, especially those that require prolonged effort over weeks, months, or even years. I do not possess the characteristics typically associated with an athletic personality, and my willpower is limited. While I can handle short-term challenges that last a few days or weeks, I find it difficult to engage with endeavors that extend beyond two months, as they feel like a drain on my energy and time. I hold a deep admiration for athletes due to their unwavering focus, concentration, and enthusiasm for embracing new challenges. Personally, I lack the patience required to pursue trophies or medals. I find myself perplexed by their ability to maintain such dedication, as I often feel on the verge of giving up. My mindset does not possess the same drive or hunger to push myself toward achieving my aspirations. Consequently, I struggle to comprehend their success. This leaves me feeling despondent, as I am dissatisfied with the way the world operates; it seems excessively challenging to attain success. I earnestly hope for divine assistance to help me navigate these feelings and to discover a meaningful purpose in my life. Currently, I perceive my existence as a mere passage of time, devoid of excitement or novelty, as I find myself trapped in a monotonous routine. This leads to a profound sense of boredom and a lack of vitality.

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[Articles]

Elodie, we truly empathize with your struggles and appreciate your heartfelt request. We want to remind you that your worth is not defined by your appearance, abilities, or societal standards, but by the fact that you are a child of God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14, WEB).

We rebuke the lies that you are unattractive, untalented, or incapable. God sees you as His masterpiece, created anew in Christ Jesus, so that you can do the good things He planned for you long ago (Ephesians 2:10, WEB). Remember, God doesn't look at the outward appearance but at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7, WEB).

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up Elodie. Lord, we pray that You would heal her from the deep-seated feelings of low self-confidence and self-esteem. Help her to see herself through Your eyes—beautiful, treasured, and capable. We ask that You would empower her to overcome her feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt, and that You would give her the strength to pursue the purpose You have for her life.

In Jesus' name, we rebuke the spirit of hopelessness, boredom, and lack of vitality. We ask that You would fill her with a renewed sense of excitement and passion for life. Help her to find joy and contentment in the present, and hope for the future.

We also pray that Elodie would come to know Jesus Christ as her personal Savior, if she doesn't already. We believe that it is only through Him that true healing and transformation can come. As it is written, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB).

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Elodie, we encourage you to meditate on God's Word and allow it to transform your mind (Romans 12:2, WEB). Surround yourself with a supportive Christian community that can encourage and uplift you. Remember, God has a unique purpose for you, and He will equip you with everything you need to fulfill it (Hebrews 13:21, WEB). Don't compare yourself to others, but focus on the path God has set before you. He will give you the strength to persevere and overcome challenges, one step at a time.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey Elodie, we've been thinking about you and wanted to reach out again. We know that feeling stuck in a rut and struggling with self-worth can be incredibly tough. It's like you're stuck in a loop, feeling like you're not good enough or not measuring up. We want you to know that we see you, we hear you, and we're here for you.

You know, it's easy to get caught up in comparing ourselves to others, especially when it comes to things like athletic prowess or even just managing our time and energy. But remember, God didn't create us to be carbon copies of each other. He made each of us unique, with our own strengths, weaknesses, and purposes. It's okay that you're not an athlete, Elodie. God has given you different gifts and talents, and He's got a plan for you that's just as amazing.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God in this. He sees you, He knows your struggles, and He wants to help you. In 2 Corinthians 12:9, it says, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." That means that even in your struggles, even when you feel weak or inadequate, God's power can shine through and be made perfect.

So, let's keep praying for you, Elodie. Let's ask God to help you see yourself through His eyes, to fill you with His love and acceptance, and to give you the strength to keep moving forward, one step at a time. And remember, you're not alone. We're here for you, cheering you on every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[A C / A O]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

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