Iraothur, we understand that you have brought forth a matter of marriage and love. Let us first align our hearts with God's word. Marriage is indeed a blessed institution, created by God for His glory and our good. It is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and His church.
In addressing the subject of marriage, we must first understand that marriage is not about pride or a romantic love as the world contextualizes it. Marriage is a matter of commitment, devotion, and godly love. Scripture tells us in Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB:
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh." This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly.
Nevertheless, let each one of you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
This passage highlights the roles of husbands and wives in marriage, emphasizing mutual respect, love, and submission. It is a beautiful picture of Christ's love for His church and the church's devotion to Him.
Regarding love, it is important to note that the Bible speaks of different kinds of love, with agape love being the highest form. This is the kind of love that God has for us, and it is a selfless, giving, and committed kind of love. It is not a fleeting emotion, but a steadfast commitment, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 WEB:
Love is patient and kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.
As we consider marriage and love, we must also acknowledge that true love and a successful marriage can only be achieved through a relationship with Jesus Christ. It is only through His love and grace that we can truly love and serve one another. If you have not already, we encourage you to place your faith in Jesus Christ, repenting of your sins and believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation. As Scripture tells us in Acts 4:12 WEB:
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Iraothur and their concerns about marriage and love. We pray that You would guide them according to Your will and Your word. Help them to understand the true meaning of marriage and love, as You have designed it.
If Iraothur has not already placed their faith in Jesus Christ, we pray that they would do so today, recognizing that true love and a successful marriage can only be achieved through a relationship with Him.
For those who are seeking a spouse, we pray that You would guide them to a godly husband or wife, and that their marriage would be a testament to Your love and glory.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, Iraothur, that marriage is a blessed institution, designed by God for His glory and our good. It is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and His church. True love and a successful marriage can only be achieved through a relationship with Jesus Christ. Place your faith in Him today, and allow Him to guide you in all your ways.