Kids being malpulated

[Cuchthach]

In the 5 years since divorce from this not nice ex wife, she has malpulated the children so badly that now the kids 14,12,7 aren't wanting to see me much anymore. I have upcoming court case in January but it feels like she has upped the "meanest". I don't know to believe the kids or to know in back of head that maybe she is telling the truth that kids do hate me. It gets really old living this life this way. Days I ask Jesus for help but hits the ceiling and stops. Just wish/want to see the kids more than 5 hours a week.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggle you're facing with your children and your ex-wife. We want to remind you that God is faithful, and He cares for you and your children. In times like these, it's crucial to lean on Him and His word.

Firstly, we want to encourage you to continue praying and not to lose heart. God's word tells us in Galatians 6:9 WEB, "Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap if we don’t faint." Keep praying and trust that God hears your prayers. It might feel like they're hitting the ceiling, but Jesus promised, "Again, I say to you, that if two of you will agree on earth concerning anything that they will ask, it will be done for them by my Father who is in heaven." Matthew 18:19 WEB. Find agreement in prayer with other believers and continue to seek God's will.

Regarding your ex-wife's behavior, we must remember that God hates deceit and manipulation. Proverbs 6:16-19 WEB lists seven things that are an abomination to God, including "a false witness who speaks lies, and one who sows discord among brothers." It's important to stand against such behavior, but also to love and forgive, as Jesus taught us. "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Matthew 6:14-15 WEB.

Concerning your children, it's essential to demonstrate unconditional love and patience. They are likely experiencing a great deal of confusion and hurt. Pray for them and trust that God is working in their hearts. Remember, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6. Continue to be a godly example to them, even if they don't appreciate it now.

As for your upcoming court case, trust that God is sovereign over all authorities. Romans 13:1 WEB reminds us, "Let every soul be in subjection to the higher authorities, for there is no authority except from God, and those who exist are ordained by God." Pray for wisdom and favor, and trust that God will guide the outcome according to His will.

Lastly, we want to remind you that God is the ultimate judge. He sees the injustices and He will right the wrongs in His time. "Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will grant you his blessing." 1 Peter 3:9 WEB.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up Cuchthach and his children. Lord, we ask for Your intervention in this situation. Soften the hearts of the children, and let them see the love of their father. Expose any manipulation and deceit, and bring it to an end, Lord. Guide the authorities involved in the upcoming court case, and let Your will be done. Give Cuchthach the strength, patience, and wisdom to navigate this challenging time. Comfort him with Your love, and remind him of Your faithfulness. We rebuke any spirit of despair, doubt or anger and replace it with joy and the fruit of the spirit as listed in Galatians 5:22-24 WEB: "love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control."

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right here with you, brother. It's heart-wrenching to see the kids pushed away like this, and we understand the frustration of feeling helpless. But remember, God sees every tear, every manipulation, and every lie. He's got this, and He's working it out for your good and the kids' sake.

We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep fighting the good fight. Keep praying, even if it feels like your prayers hit the ceiling. God hears you. And remember, two or more agreed in prayer can move mountains. Find others to stand in agreement with you.

In the meantime, keep loving your kids unconditionally. They need to see that love, even if they don't understand it right now. And keep trusting God with the court case. He's in control, and He'll guide the outcome according to His perfect will.

And hey, let's not forget to forgive, even if it's hard. Forgiveness isn't about saying what happened was okay. It's about letting go of the bitterness so it doesn't consume you. Remember, "Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you" (Luke 6:27-28).

Keep your chin up, brother. We're praying for you and the kids every step of the way.

 

[Wernad]

Heavenly Father,


We lift up [the user] to You, asking for Your divine intervention and wisdom in this challenging situation. Lord, You see the pain and longing in [the user’s] heart to spend more time with their children. We ask that You bring peace, healing, and reconciliation to this family. Your Word declares, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). May Your presence bring comfort and hope during this difficult time.


Father, we pray for [the user’s] children—14, 12, and 7 years old. Protect their hearts and minds from manipulation or confusion. Bring clarity, love, and understanding into their relationships. Your Word reminds us in Isaiah 54:13: “All your children will be taught by the Lord, and great will be their peace.” May they feel Your guiding hand and the unconditional love of their parent.


Lord, we lift up the upcoming court case in January. Grant the judge and all involved wisdom, fairness, and discernment. You are a God of justice, as it is written in Psalm 89:14: “Righteousness and justice are the foundation of Your throne; love and faithfulness go before You.” May the outcome of this case reflect Your will and bring about greater connection between [the user] and their children.


Father, we know that conflict can be wearisome, especially when it involves family. Strengthen [the user] with Your peace and patience. Help them to respond with kindness and grace, even in the face of opposition. Remind them of Your promise in Galatians 6:9: “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”


We also pray for the ex-wife. Lord, work in her heart to soften any bitterness or resentment. May she act in the best interest of the children, fostering unity and love rather than division. Your Word calls us to live in peace, as much as it depends on us (Romans 12:18). Help all parties involved to move toward reconciliation and healing.


Finally, Lord, remind [the user] that their prayers do not fall on deaf ears. You hear every cry and see every tear. Your Word in Psalm 116:1-2 assures us: “I love the Lord, for He heard my voice; He heard my cry for mercy. Because He turned His ear to me, I will call on Him as long as I live.” Strengthen their faith and fill them with the assurance that You are working all things for their good (Romans 8:28).


In the name of Jesus, our Prince of Peace,
Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your family up in prayer, dear brother. Thank you for sharing your burden with us and allowing us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. We are trusting God with you for a breakthrough in your situation.

If you have seen improvements in your relationship with your children or if there has been a positive outcome in your court case, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report with us, so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness.

However, if you feel that your prayers have not yet been answered, or if the situation has become even more challenging, please do not hesitate to share an update. We want to continue praying with you and for you. Remember, we serve a God who sees, knows, and cares. Keep holding on to His promises.

We are praying for God's wisdom and discernment to guide you. May He give you strength and peace as you navigate this difficult time. We are also praying for a hedge of protection around your children, that their hearts would be turned towards you, and that truth would prevail in your upcoming court case.

May God bless you and your family as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for His will to be done and for His glory to be revealed in your life.