Hopeful23
Servant
Just one of many issues going on. It would take too long to explain but basically, I come from a not too good family.
About two years ago my son married a Russian in a foreign country. We never were introduced not even over the phone to this person or her family. Never went to the wedding either. I don't have a passport and you need one to travel. A big headache to get one. I have health issues that are affected by hot weather where this person lived plus it is a corrupt country and I have responsibilities where I am so it wasn't feasible and not financially either.
So he marries the person even though he doesn't really know the person well enough in my opinion. Just long distance online and met up once in another foreign country for a short holiday. Not exactly a basis for a lifelong commitment.
So he brings the person to Canada and we meet her. Very strange. Doesn't talk much at all. Doesn't really reveal much about herself either. Kind of has this blank stare. Reminds me of a psychopath really. Didn't seem to like me upon meeting and the feeling is mutual.
I did try to include her but this person has something strange about her.
The other big issue that I told my son was that she isn't a believer. Not good to join with an unbeliever like that. He didn't heed my warning.
So I ended up confronting this woman on why she married my son without even introducing herself or her side of the family even on the phone. I don't believe that is too much to ask considering she is marrying my kid. She never answered me but just stared at me. I asked a total of three times and never got an answer. Just stared at me. Got all huffy puffy and they left my house.
This visit was also my birthday and it was a disaster. They were late. My son never brought a card or anything. Claimed he forgot. Wife couldn't remind him??? Of course he is responsible for himself but really how disrespectful.
So basically she couldn't handle me confronting her and I haven't seen nor heard from my son for about two years now. He basically rejected me, my husband, my grandson, and the poodle. We mean nothing to him since he married this Russian scammer. I believe she is just using him to come over here and get citizenship. I also believe that she wants to isolate him from his immediate family since both me and my husband see right through her.
I know this is long but bear with me. So another strange thing is that my mother is a very self-absorbed narcissist type individual whom I've had to cut off and yet my son and this woman is buddying up to her? Very strange. How do I know this? I had to contact my mom regarding some information and of course my mom took this as an opportunity to rub in my face how she sees my son, etc. Maybe he is sucking up to get an inheritence. Who knows. Yes, I've also been disinherited by my mother which is another story.
The strange part is due to Immigration Fraud usually the government will contact the family and check things out to confirm the relationship is real, etc. Well I am his mother and wasn't contacted by immigration but my mother was? How does that make sense? Did my son tell the government that I was dead or that I was a nutbag or what? Of course how do I know this? Again, had to contact my mother unfortunately because I needed some information.
This whole thing is really messed up. I had to contact my mother again regarding some information I needed and looks like my son is doing so well in more than one way. I believe this woman is up to something and it is not good. I could be wrong but what kind of woman doesn't want her husband talking to his own mother. I know the leave and cleave and I'm not a possessive mother but my son has cut us all off except for my narcissistic mother for some reason. Probably cause my mother is a fake and a cameleon and will just go along instead of being real and confronting issues. I'm more the other type of person so I suppose I pose as some kind of threat to this individual.
I don't know if this person has attained citizenship or not but that is a high price to pay just for my son to be with someone. I warned him before about this foreign bride thing but what do I know?
Please pray this woman is exposed if she is just using him and for my son to have enough courage to give her a one-way ticket out of Canada.
I goofed up again on the proofreading. I meant my son is not doing so well. As in not good. He has racked up a lot of debt going on that holiday, paying for the marriage license and part of the wedding, etc. Just the cost of getting her over here. Since I'm editing just to elaborate a little. My son has always been a very slight person. According to the narcissistic mother, he is losing weight, losing hair, intestinal pains, could barely get out of bed, etc. Now, this woman presumably gets medicine from overseas and gives it to him. I think this evil woman is poisoning my son but I can't prove it. I can't accuse and do anything about this unless I have actual evidence which I do not and she is making sure he keeps away from me so I can't expose her.
My son has to take a stand and come to us since he rejected us and we didn't reject him. This evil viper has some kind of hold on him. Probably the female male hypnotic dynamic if you know what I mean. But if my son ever dies before his time I will request they take hair samples of what hair there is and check for poisoning, especially along the lines of arsenic.
About two years ago my son married a Russian in a foreign country. We never were introduced not even over the phone to this person or her family. Never went to the wedding either. I don't have a passport and you need one to travel. A big headache to get one. I have health issues that are affected by hot weather where this person lived plus it is a corrupt country and I have responsibilities where I am so it wasn't feasible and not financially either.
So he marries the person even though he doesn't really know the person well enough in my opinion. Just long distance online and met up once in another foreign country for a short holiday. Not exactly a basis for a lifelong commitment.
So he brings the person to Canada and we meet her. Very strange. Doesn't talk much at all. Doesn't really reveal much about herself either. Kind of has this blank stare. Reminds me of a psychopath really. Didn't seem to like me upon meeting and the feeling is mutual.
I did try to include her but this person has something strange about her.
The other big issue that I told my son was that she isn't a believer. Not good to join with an unbeliever like that. He didn't heed my warning.
So I ended up confronting this woman on why she married my son without even introducing herself or her side of the family even on the phone. I don't believe that is too much to ask considering she is marrying my kid. She never answered me but just stared at me. I asked a total of three times and never got an answer. Just stared at me. Got all huffy puffy and they left my house.
This visit was also my birthday and it was a disaster. They were late. My son never brought a card or anything. Claimed he forgot. Wife couldn't remind him??? Of course he is responsible for himself but really how disrespectful.
So basically she couldn't handle me confronting her and I haven't seen nor heard from my son for about two years now. He basically rejected me, my husband, my grandson, and the poodle. We mean nothing to him since he married this Russian scammer. I believe she is just using him to come over here and get citizenship. I also believe that she wants to isolate him from his immediate family since both me and my husband see right through her.
I know this is long but bear with me. So another strange thing is that my mother is a very self-absorbed narcissist type individual whom I've had to cut off and yet my son and this woman is buddying up to her? Very strange. How do I know this? I had to contact my mom regarding some information and of course my mom took this as an opportunity to rub in my face how she sees my son, etc. Maybe he is sucking up to get an inheritence. Who knows. Yes, I've also been disinherited by my mother which is another story.
The strange part is due to Immigration Fraud usually the government will contact the family and check things out to confirm the relationship is real, etc. Well I am his mother and wasn't contacted by immigration but my mother was? How does that make sense? Did my son tell the government that I was dead or that I was a nutbag or what? Of course how do I know this? Again, had to contact my mother unfortunately because I needed some information.
This whole thing is really messed up. I had to contact my mother again regarding some information I needed and looks like my son is doing so well in more than one way. I believe this woman is up to something and it is not good. I could be wrong but what kind of woman doesn't want her husband talking to his own mother. I know the leave and cleave and I'm not a possessive mother but my son has cut us all off except for my narcissistic mother for some reason. Probably cause my mother is a fake and a cameleon and will just go along instead of being real and confronting issues. I'm more the other type of person so I suppose I pose as some kind of threat to this individual.
I don't know if this person has attained citizenship or not but that is a high price to pay just for my son to be with someone. I warned him before about this foreign bride thing but what do I know?
Please pray this woman is exposed if she is just using him and for my son to have enough courage to give her a one-way ticket out of Canada.
I goofed up again on the proofreading. I meant my son is not doing so well. As in not good. He has racked up a lot of debt going on that holiday, paying for the marriage license and part of the wedding, etc. Just the cost of getting her over here. Since I'm editing just to elaborate a little. My son has always been a very slight person. According to the narcissistic mother, he is losing weight, losing hair, intestinal pains, could barely get out of bed, etc. Now, this woman presumably gets medicine from overseas and gives it to him. I think this evil woman is poisoning my son but I can't prove it. I can't accuse and do anything about this unless I have actual evidence which I do not and she is making sure he keeps away from me so I can't expose her.
My son has to take a stand and come to us since he rejected us and we didn't reject him. This evil viper has some kind of hold on him. Probably the female male hypnotic dynamic if you know what I mean. But if my son ever dies before his time I will request they take hair samples of what hair there is and check for poisoning, especially along the lines of arsenic.