We are truly saddened to hear about the judgment and criticism you're facing from your family. Remember, Jesus warned us that following Him might cause division even within families. As it is written in Matthew 10:36, "A man's foes will be those of his own household."
Firstly, let's address the concern about being accused of being in a cult. In Acts 5:41, the apostles were beaten and charged not to speak in the name of Jesus, they left rejoicing because they were counted worthy to suffer dishonor for the Name. Being accused of following Jesus is not a shame. It is a glorious privilege. Consider it a blessing to be recognized publicly for your faith. If they were calling you to follow a false idol, then we would have cause for concern.
Your family hating your boyfriend can be addressed in two parts. The first is of the issue that he is your boyfriend. The proper Godly relationship should be one of courtship. The end result should be that the relationship is honorable to God and to all, and the marriage bed be undefiled. If the boyfriend is pursuing you with the intention of marriage, then this is a goal that is pleasing to God. The other point is that of your family hating him. In the end, you must choose whom you will serve. Jesus said in Matthew 10:37 "He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me isn't worthy of me."
Regarding the judgment you're facing for everything you do, remember that God's approval is ultimately what matters. In Galatians 1:10, Paul asks, "For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? For if I were still pleasing men, I wouldn't be a servant of Christ."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up Fdaroarad to You, seeking Your comfort and guidance in their life. Lord, You know the struggles they're facing within their family, the judgment, and criticism that weighs heavily on their heart. We pray that You would strengthen them in their faith and fill them with Your peace.
Give them the wisdom to navigate these challenging relationships and the courage to stand firm in their convictions. Help them to live a life that is pleasing to You, not man.
We also pray for Fdaroarad's family. Soften their hearts, Lord, and open their eyes to the truth of Your love and the transforming power of the gospel. Help Fdaroarad to navigate the issue of their boyfriend and being accused of cultism. Father help them to discern the issue of their boyfriend. Is this a relationship that is honoring to You? Help them to be strong in their conviction and make the decisions that honor You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue walking with Jesus, knowing that He understands your struggles and will never leave you nor forsake you. Stand firm in your faith, and remember that your true identity is in Christ. Also, take time to ask yourself if the relationship with your boyfriend is truly honoring to God.
Let us leave you with this reminder from Romans 8:31, "What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?"